How to love your family, when God hates the nonelects?

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HatedForNoReason

HatedForNoReason

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I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
 
HeIsHere

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HatedForNoReason said:
I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
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This is the fruit of Calvinism. sigh
 
oyster67

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How to love your family, when God hates the nonelects?


God loves your family, every single one of them. That is the Gospel. What manner of mush have you been feeding on?

John 3
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.

2 Peter 3:9 “The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.”
 
Blain

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HatedForNoReason said:
I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
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Be warned it is not wise to speak for God on whom he has chosen. You are seeing the present he sees past present and future your puffing yourself up and deciding yourself who he has chosen.

Based on what you currently see you decide eternity how foolish
 
Blain

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HatedForNoReason said:
I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
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By the way next time you make a thread you might want to do it for the right reasons the motive of your thread does not go unseen don't underestimate the people here discernment is basically law
 
Blain

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HeIsHere said:
This is the fruit of Calvinism. sigh
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You know I really need to to learn more about calvinism I hear about it a lot and I have had a general run down but nothing really in depth to actually understand it I never like to take just a basic layer of things.
 
Blain

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Btw welcome to Christian chat snacker as you can see we know how to have fun too it is a pleasure to meet you.
 
oyster67

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Blain said:
You know I really need to to learn more about calvinism
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You really don't, unless it is just to satisfy your curiosity. It is completely extra-biblical and anti-gospel. You are going to need a lot of intestinal fortitude.
 
oyster67

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Blain said:
Btw welcome to Christian chat snacker as you can see we know how to have fun too it is a pleasure to meet you.
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Dum-dum has actually been here for a long time. He just keeps forgetting what his names are and has to make up new ones. o_O
 
Blain

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oyster67 said:
You really don't, unless it is just to satisfy your curiosity. It is completely extra-biblical and anti-gospel. You are going to need a lot of intestinal fortitude.
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Well yes it is to understand it, it keeps popping up in subjects and posts a lot like a theme of some kind but I never really know where they are coming from but the fruits of calvisim if this is that I fear for them honestly it's worrying.
 
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oyster67 said:
Dum-dum has actually been here for a long time. He just keeps forgetting what his names are and has to make up new ones. o_O
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wait really? I actually sadly have the same issue with a lot of my log ins:LOL:
 
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Cameron143

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HatedForNoReason said:
I know for a fact, that am the only one in my family that is one of God's elects. After the true gospel is told to them, their fruit is revealed that they are nonelects.
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God saved you. How do you know He will not yet be merciful to your family as well?
 
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