They died physically just as you will does that mean you're ungodly? The truth is you have no idea of the state of their soul and we only have you're word you are a believer so maybe you're real purpose for being here is to condemn/confuse others?
John 3:17
For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that
the world through Him might be saved.
Maybe if you extended more grace and less, whatever this is you call it, you would see that Christ wants the children to come to Him because He can see more than you and knows how to judge truly.