There is a difference here between first forgiveness from Jesus at salvation for our sin, and then the daily walk of forgiving others.
Forgiving others comes out of the love shown us by Jesus in sealing (for those that are converted) us.
It may not happen after we are born again. That doesn't mean we haven't been born again.
What is the context? Daily service or initially being born again?
Read the parable Jesus is asked a question , the LORD is asked and answers
Matthew 18:21-32, 34-35 NIV
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “
Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.
( Listen to the story and ask how it relates to his kingdom )
“Therefore,
the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement,
a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. ( All his debt is cancelled by the king up front because of the mans repentance and the king's mercy.)
“
But when that servant went out, he found
one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’ “
But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt.
( Cold blooded huh he's a hypocrite and hasn't learned anything his heart is hard he's selfish even after receiving great mercy he has nine to offer his fellow whom owed far less than he )
When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened. “
Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to.
In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.
( Remember it's already established he cannot pay the debt so it was forgiven up front but now he wouldn't share the mercy and he's recalled and the debt has been re instated now he owes it all and must pay just as he forced the other man to do he have no mercy now he has none )
“
This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
Belief is when we listen to him hear what he's saying and accept it begin to think it's the way it is so we start to act upon it as if we believe it's all true . Hearing things like this from Gods own word
Matthew 6:14-15 NIV
For
if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
If we don't explain to ourselves why this doesn't apply to believers , but accept it as the truth from God our judge . If we have an unforgiving heart towards people and are a believer , our Gods words should have the power to be true and right so we'll come and change towards what his will is which is that we love each other truly , forgiving is part of real love towards another
John 14:23-24 NIV
Jesus replied, “
John 14:23 NIV
[23] Jesus replied, “
Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching.
. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them.
Anyone who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.
1 John 5:1-4 NIV
Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well.
This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands.
In fact, this is love for God: to keep his commands. And his commands are not burdensome, for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith.