Exactly it’s a love for sin rather than God
Which is exactly why Jesus said some people will ultimately be condemned.
Jhn 3:19
And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
Jhn 3:20
For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
Jhn 3:21
But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Those who will ultimately be condemned will be those who loved darkness rather than light because their deeds were evil. The same hate the light, Jesus, the light of the world, and they will not come to him that their evil deeds might be reproved. Nothing here about God allegedly "predestinating" them to condemnation. Their condemnation will be the direct result of their own freewill choices in this life.
Deu 30:19
I call heaven and earth to record this day against you,
that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore
choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:
In context, here is what their CHOICE of either life or death pertained to.
Deu 30:11
For this commandment which I command thee this day, it
is not hidden from thee, neither
is it far off.
Deu 30:12
It
is not in heaven, that thou shouldest say, Who shall go up for us to heaven, and bring it unto us, that we may hear it, and do it?
Deu 30:13
Neither
is it beyond the sea, that thou shouldest say, Who shall go over the sea for us, and bring it unto us, that we may hear it, and do it?
Deu 30:14
But the word
is very nigh unto thee, in thy mouth, and in thy heart, that thou mayest do it.
Here is Paul's interpretation of these verses.
Rom 10:6
But the righteousness which is of faith speaketh on this wise, Say not in thine heart, Who shall ascend into heaven? (that is, to bring Christ down
from above)
Rom 10:7
Or, Who shall descend into the deep? (that is, to bring up Christ again from the dead.)
Rom 10:8
But what saith it? The word is nigh thee,
even in thy mouth, and in thy heart: that is, the word of faith, which we preach;
Rom 10:9
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
Rom 10:10
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
The righteousness which is of faith that Paul preached is the same exact righteousness which is of faith the Moses preached to the Israelites back in Deuteronomy chapter 30. They, like we, had the option of CHOOSING either life or death by faith in Christ.
Heb 4:2
For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard
it.
Again, Moses preached the same exact gospel to the Israelites that non-Calvinists are preaching today. The reason why it did not profit many in the days of Moses is because it was not mixed with faith in those who heard it, and not because Calvin's "god" predestinated them to damnation.