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A Christian dating show idea where you can potentially meet your spouse? Without giving away all the details, this would be done prayerfully with biblical knowledge and it would be used as a platform God would use to connect you to your forever person.
 

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A Christian dating show idea where you can potentially meet your spouse? Without giving away all the details, this would be done prayerfully with biblical knowledge and it would be used as a platform God would use to connect you to your forever person.
If it's done "with biblical knowledge"...
where in the Bible does God need a "show" to help someone find a spouse?

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If it's done "with biblical knowledge"...
where in the Bible does God need a "show" to help someone find a spouse?

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God uses all kinds of different platforms to fulfill his purpose through his willing servants, this being one of them...
 

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A Christian dating show idea where you can potentially meet your spouse? Without giving away all the details, this would be done prayerfully with biblical knowledge and it would be used as a platform God would use to connect you to your forever person.
Howdy and welcome to the Forum.

Are you looking for people who would be interested in participating in the show, or people who would be interested in watching the show? Or both?

I would be neither, but I thought it might help this thread if I asked you to clarify what you're after here. You might get clearer responses from people.
 
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Howdy and welcome to the Forum.

Are you looking for people who would be interested in participating in the show, or people who would be interested in watching the show? Or both?

I would be neither, but I thought it might help this thread if I asked you to clarify what you're after here. You might get clearer responses from people.
Oh I wanted to hear out some views on this kind of thing and if anyone is interested. I'm not sure if anyone has seen those "pop the balloon" YouTube video's streaming, but I've noticed some Christians appearing on the show and was wondering if there was a Christian version for believers if it would be better for us to view or used as an avenue to make kingdom connections.
 

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God uses all kinds of different platforms to fulfill his purpose through his willing servants, this being one of them...
Last time I used a Christian dating site, she invited me to church and then in the middle of the service while the pastor was speaking, invited me to a beach rave and when I denied her offer and instead of getting to know about each other, the date ended, she friend zoned me, went to the beach rave and when I told her I don’t think this is going to work, she wanted to have a ton of more dates with me and I told her that I already made my decision and never spoke to her again.

i don’t have time for games.

it’s a no for me.
 

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Oh I wanted to hear out some views on this kind of thing and if anyone is interested. I'm not sure if anyone has seen those "pop the balloon" YouTube video's streaming, but I've noticed some Christians appearing on the show and was wondering if there was a Christian version for believers if it would be better for us to view or used as an avenue to make kingdom connections.
Anyone who says “kingdom connections” reminds me of threads.net where people pretend to be Christians, so they can get more followers on social media and so they can shine and have the glory, instead of Jesus/God.

No thanks.
 
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Last time I used a Christian dating site, she invited me to church and then in the middle of the service while the pastor was speaking, invited me to a beach rave and when I denied her offer and instead of getting to know about each other, the date ended, she friend zoned me, went to the beach rave and when I told her I don’t think this is going to work, she wanted to have a ton of more dates with me and I told her that I already made my decision and never spoke to her again.

i don’t have time for games.

it’s a no for me.
God will lead you to your wife
 
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That is very kind of you @ChristsSoldier0033 I’ve never seen you before but you sure make a great first impression.
Im rather new. Seeking Christian companionship in a season where I don't find much. Following God can be lonely, but just like Elijah, God shows that even when we're lonely He's there. Been there. And ever will be. Leaning on Him in times like that is what can keep us from darkness and stay abiding in His Light.
 

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Im rather new. Seeking Christian companionship in a season where I don't find much. Following God can be lonely, but just like Elijah, God shows that even when we're lonely He's there. Been there. And ever will be. Leaning on Him in times like that is what can keep us from darkness and stay abiding in His Light.
You are very likable my friend.

Welcome to Christian Chat if no one has welcomed you yet.

We are honored to have you here.
 
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You are very likable my friend.

Welcome to Christian Chat if no one has welcomed you yet.

We are honored to have you here.
Thankyou for your welcome and that little message about atheist using BC and AD because Jesus divided time made me chuckle lol! What are the odds that the entire earth starts over their years lol Glory to Jesus! Amen
 

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Last time I used a Christian dating site, she invited me to church and then in the middle of the service while the pastor was speaking, invited me to a beach rave and when I denied her offer and instead of getting to know about each other, the date ended, she friend zoned me, went to the beach rave and when I told her I don’t think this is going to work, she wanted to have a ton of more dates with me and I told her that I already made my decision and never spoke to her again.

i don’t have time for games.
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it’s a no for me.
i don’t trust any new member who creates a thread with an obviously tempting social media subject line, trying to lure Christians into sinful behavior. If they are going to try and tempt you here, they will try and tempt you in the real world as well. Just look at her profile picture, obvious party girl vibes. A I go to church on Sunday but f God all week, I do what I want kinda “Christian”.

i’ve been around the block.
 

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Thankyou for your welcome and that little message about atheist using BC and AD because Jesus divided time made me chuckle lol! What are the odds that the entire earth starts over their years lol Glory to Jesus! Amen
Glory to Jesus my friend!

Glad it caught your eye, you are the first person to tell me about it.
 
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i don’t trust any new member who creates a thread with an obviously tempting social media subject line, trying to lure Christians into sinful behavior. If they are going to try and tempt you here, they will try and tempt you in the real world as well. Just look at her profile picture, obvious party girl vibes. A I go to church on Sunday but f God all week, I do what I want kinda “Christian”.

i’ve been around the block.
It would be impossible to avoid temptation and evil in this world. But if she be a sinner or not I don't know. I don't know her from Adam. I can't judge off looks but fruits like Jesus said, a good tree bear good fruits but a bad tree bears bad fruits. A good tree cannot bear bad nor a bad good(Reference Matthew 7:15-20) . I love her regardless and am glad she's here. From what was posted it doesn't really tell me about her lifestyle but that she probably really like dating shows and would want it to reflect Christ. But in this world most dating shows don't. So i can see why people think the way they think. Most dating show couples don't last because it is usually based off of lust and surface level attractions rather than true genuine love. But as a Christian we date to marry. We court women. So finding someone to marry on this show would be hard given that it is the Holy Spirit that guides the man to find his wife. And the Holy Spirit to guide the woman to accept the man. It may take only the first episode or it may drag on for years before God bring them together in His divine will( Read the story of Jacob finding his wife Rachel in Genesis) Plus not all believers will get married. Marriage is not a commandment nor our duty on earth. We are not in the genesis times. Our sole duty and blessing is to serve Christ and be found as His. Anything else is extra grace on top of grace what God has for our lives on earth.
 

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It would be impossible to avoid temptation and evil in this world. But if she be a sinner or not I don't know. I don't know her from Adam. I can't judge off looks but fruits like Jesus said, a good tree bear good fruits but a bad tree bears bad fruits. A good tree cannot bear bad nor a bad good(Reference Matthew 7:15-20) . I love her regardless and am glad she's here. From what was posted it doesn't really tell me about her lifestyle but that she probably really like dating shows and would want it to reflect Christ. But in this world most dating shows don't. So i can see why people think the way they think. Most dating show couples don't last because it is usually based off of lust and surface level attractions rather than true genuine love. But as a Christian we date to marry. We court women. So finding someone to marry on this show would be hard given that it is the Holy Spirit that guides the man to find his wife. And the Holy Spirit to guide the woman to accept the man. It may take only the first episode or it may drag on for years before God bring them together in His divine will( Read the story of Jacob finding his wife Rachel in Genesis) Plus not all believers will get married. Marriage is not a commandment nor our duty on earth. We are not in the genesis times. Our sole duty and blessing is to serve Christ and be found as His. Anything else is extra grace on top of grace what God has for our lives on earth.
You are very well balanced and reasonable.

Thank you for that.

I obviously am not reflecting Christ in this thread.
 

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You are very well balanced and reasonable.

Thank you for that.

I obviously am not reflecting Christ in this thread.
Hey I just wanna say it's refreshing to see this exchange between you and @ChristsSoldier0033. The gentle admonition and the humble reception are exemplary of how the body of Christ should work. Blessings.
 
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You are very well balanced and reasonable.

Thank you for that.

I obviously am not reflecting Christ in this thread.
You have good zeal brother, you remind me of Peter. I dealt with the same thing, love and zeal can be a hard balance at times. You just got to remain in love yet ever abiding in the righteous judgments of Christ knowing that it is not I that judge myself or others but the Word of God and of Christ shall judge us all in the end.
 
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You are very well balanced and reasonable.

Thank you for that.

I obviously am not reflecting Christ in this thread.
I love you brother and if I could I would friend you but the best thing I can do I guess is say email my account on here lol. God bless Jesus loves you and all you love you are truly The FATHER'S son. <3
 

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Hey I just wanna say it's refreshing to see this exchange between you and @ChristsSoldier0033. The gentle admonition and the humble reception are exemplary of how the body of Christ should work. Blessings.
I obviously have a broken heart at the moment. So when I feel like this new woman who made this thread is trying to lure me into a obviously overwhelming experience, it troubles me.

Having @ChristsSoldier0033 come out of no where and resemble Christ completely, was super refreshing and an absolute blessing from God.