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Evita

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Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
 
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Evita said:
Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
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I wil pray for u
 
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Evita said:
Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
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Welcome to the forums, Evita.

Your life in faith has an Author and a Finisher. Stay with Him. Ending your life prematurely would only deny Christ the opportunity to perfect His work in you.

When we are anxious and distressed, our feelings and shifting emotions can pull us from pillar to post, but it's vital for us to remember that the covenant relationship between God and His children is not a passive or distant care, but an intimate involvement in the growth of those who've received the Spirit of adoption.

I will pray for you to receive comfort from the Comforter. 🙏
 
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Evita said:
Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
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Welcome. I have good news for you. I'm 75 and I've made countless stupid decisions. I was born again shortly before my 21st birthday. That was wonderful, but I trusted too much in my own wisdom and cleverness. That was the worst mistake. In spite of all that, God has restored me every time that I failed. And I've learned a great deal as a result.

God's promise to you is this: "And we know that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28

It may not seem like it at the time, but God certainly has turned my failures into good. This true story may help you:

A woman saw a vision of her life. It was a tapestry from the back. (If you've seen the back of a tapestry, it is just a jumble of coloured threads). She saw the threads, silver, gold, red, blue, green and so on. But some of the threads were back. She asked what this all meant.

God told her that the threads represented her life. She was concerned about the black threads. God told her that they were the bad times that she had gone through. Then God turned the tapestry around so that she could see the true picture. She was amazed and delighted. The picture was wonderful. She also saw that God had woven the black threads into the tapestry in a way that improved it.

Please be assured that God loves you, no matter what you are going through. We are encouraged to cast all our cares on God because He cares for us. Let Him take care of you every moment of every day.

My wife says hello. She visited Indonesia 3 times for a total of 2 months.
 
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Welcome to the forums, Evita.

Your life in faith has an Author and a Finisher. Stay with Him. Ending your life prematurely would only deny Christ the opportunity to perfect His work in you.

When we are anxious and distressed, our feelings and shifting emotions can pull us from pillar to post, but it's vital for us to remember that the covenant relationship between God and His children is not a passive or distant care, but an intimate involvement in the growth of those who've received the Spirit of adoption.

I will pray for you to receive comfort from the Comforter. 🙏
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Thank you for your encouraging words and prayers. They mean a lot to me. 🙏
 
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Welcome. I have good news for you. I'm 75 and I've made countless stupid decisions. I was born again shortly before my 21st birthday. That was wonderful, but I trusted too much in my own wisdom and cleverness. That was the worst mistake. In spite of all that, God has restored me every time that I failed. And I've learned a great deal as a result.

God's promise to you is this: "And we know that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28

It may not seem like it at the time, but God certainly has turned my failures into good. This true story may help you:

A woman saw a vision of her life. It was a tapestry from the back. (If you've seen the back of a tapestry, it is just a jumble of coloured threads). She saw the threads, silver, gold, red, blue, green and so on. But some of the threads were back. She asked what this all meant.

God told her that the threads represented her life. She was concerned about the black threads. God told her that they were the bad times that she had gone through. Then God turned the tapestry around so that she could see the true picture. She was amazed and delighted. The picture was wonderful. She also saw that God had woven the black threads into the tapestry in a way that improved it.

Please be assured that God loves you, no matter what you are going through. We are encouraged to cast all our cares on God because He cares for us. Let Him take care of you every moment of every day.

My wife says hello. She visited Indonesia 3 times for a total of 2 months.
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Thank you so much for your message. I will read this again and again. I've been struggling with fear, regret, and hopelessness, so your testimony and encouragement mean more to me than I can express.

Thank you for reminding me that God can still work through my failures and mistakes. I will hold on to that hope. And hello to your wife 😊 Please thank her for saying hello to me. It's wonderful to hear that she has visited Indonesia. God bless you both, and once again thank you so much
 
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Evita said:
Thank you so much for your message. I will read this again and again. I've been struggling with fear, regret, and hopelessness, so your testimony and encouragement mean more to me than I can express.

Thank you for reminding me that God can still work through my failures and mistakes. I will hold on to that hope. And hello to your wife 😊 Please thank her for saying hello to me. It's wonderful to hear that she has visited Indonesia. God bless you both, and once again thank you so much
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I know your pain. I had much encouragement when I went through some very hard times. I'm glad that I can be of some help to you. I suggest that you study the wonderful promises in God's word. Remind yourself of who you are in Christ - you are a new creation. If you start declaring God's word, out loud, then you will edify yourself and faith will rise.

Let me know if we can be of any other help to you. I'm in Australia,by the way.
 
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'In a restless world it is not unusual to become overwhelmed. One needs to keep
a God consciousness, and to know this surely will help in disciplining one's life.
I hope you come to learn this well, and perhaps your change will bring the change you need.
 
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Evita said:
Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
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It is nice to meet you too. I'm 71 years old. Encouragement from the various members is what happens here. Yes, there is absolutely a future for you as God has big plans for your life. I have prayed for God to give you his blessed assured hope that it will all work out for his glory and for your great benefit. Glad to have you onboard with us. Welcome to CC.
 
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Welcome!
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I love butterflies. I think most people do. Do you know, they represent transformation?
That is because through metamorphosis, what starts as a worm crawling around in the
dust turns into a beautiful flying creature able to fly above the Earth. AI overview says it
this way: Butterflies are universally celebrated as powerful symbols of transformation,
personal growth, and rebirth. This deep meaning stems from their incredible life cycle, reflecting
the beautiful truth that significant change requires patience, endurance, and breaking free from
old limitations. For now we are all here, and before being saved we crawled around in the dirt.
But now as a person born again we can rely on God's help to break free from old limitations.

 
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Evita said:
Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
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Hello Evita, been there done that and still have a few scars from the ordeal. But there can be a much brighter future once you get past the storm.
 
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Hi Evita I'm glad the Lord led you here, welcome to the fellowship at CC!
'Therefore there is now no condemnation [no guilty verdict, no punishment] for those who are in Christ Jesus [who believe in Him as personal Lord and Savior]' Rom 8:1.
'Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things' Phil 4:8.
We don't hang on to our mistakes, when we turn to Him, He says He will forget them so there's absolutely no reason for us to dwell on them. Put your trust/faith in His word, it's full of promises when we believe. God bless & keep you in His Love, IJNA🙏🙌
 
Evita said:
Nice to meet you all, I'm 21 years old. actually the reason i'm in here. to get encourage word from stranger, i feel no hope and get anxiety,overthingking and stress because the stupid decision that i have made, and because of that i feel there is no future for me, and i dont know why i start to think to end my lifee.
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I invite you to believe that Jesus Christ can resurrect the dead, and that He offers eternal life to all those who accept His sacrifice.
Rest assured He will offer you hope, and heal your heart if you believe my words.
 
John 10:10
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10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

John 3:16
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16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

Ephesians 6:12
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12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

Romans 10:9
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9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

Luke 19:10
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10 For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.”

2 Timothy 3:16-17
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16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

Proverbs 4:7
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7 The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom.
Though it cost all you have, get understanding.

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