delete or not to delete that is the ????

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Junior Member
Apr 14, 2009
hey guys can you please keep me in your prayers because i am deciding if im going to delete my account ive already deleted facebook,myspace,xianz,shoutlife accounts..... too much drama and people judging me..

thank you so much


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I will keep you in prayer. Not for the decision, but for you to have peace. When you have peace, the decision will be an easy one. One of the best pieces of advice I can give is from a very special person.

When I was young in the Lord I was having trouble dealing with a person at work who always seemed to have something bad to say about me. She seemed to hate me for some reason and I couldn't understand it because I never did any wrong to her. She always got mad at me when I tried to help and hated when I tried to show her how to do things at work. It finally brought me to tears and massive frustation because I just couldn't understand what I had done wrong.

The advice my friend gave me...

Tell her you love her

When I did, things began to change and we actually started helping each other and I started to grow in faith because it helped me to see God's Word in action. Doing this all through my walk has helped to me to reach a confidence level I never had before. In the past have been judged for the way I pray, the way I worship, the way I share God's word and each time I handled it the same way. I also came to understand that it is God that I need to worry about pleasing, not man... and if God is for me NO man can stand against me!

You need to grow in faith, trust in God and tell the next person... "I love you". Step out of the box you are holding yourself in. Find true followers of the Lord to be around that will help and encourage you to strive for a higher place. And learn to forgive... Here is a thought the Lord once put on my heart. I pray it helps you to move forward in your walk and BE BLESSED BY THE BEST!

For the day of the Lord draws near on all the nations. As you have done, it will be done to you. Your dealings will return on your own head. Obadiah 1:15

We are each responsible for our own actions and words. We will not be penalized for the actions of others, but we will be held accountable for our own actions and words. God sees everything we do and hears everything we say, and we are so blessed that we have an awesome forgiving God, but we must be willing to drop the pride and admit our wrong doing in order to be forgiven. That includes the wrong of not forgiving others.

It is time to forgive those who have hurt you and love them the way God desires you to. There are times when it is extremely difficult to forgive when we have been hurt so very badly, but we will not be able to learn and grow in love unless we do. What is past will always be a part of you, but you can use that event to help another. Trust that God will heal the wounds and take that burden off your heart and forgive.


:( (((((((((HUGGLES)))))))))) dont delete ur account...... *pouts*


Hey Dan,

I don't know what's happened but you'll be in my prayers man. Before you delete your account though and make any decisions that are a bit too hasty, why don't you try talking it out with some friends on here first? Think about this one before you go through with it Avery.

You should know that everyone loves you on here and you've always been a popular character, so this comes as a big shock to me.

I think I speak for everyone here when I say that no one wants to see you go.


Senior Member
Jun 12, 2007
hey guys can you please keep me in your prayers because i am deciding if im going to delete my account ive already deleted facebook,myspace,xianz,shoutlife accounts..... too much drama and people judging me..

thank you so much


[email protected]
Peaches!!!!!!!!!!!! Please don't delete your account.. You know I have been called names, been judged many times in here, but I stuck with it and people got to see me for who I really am not for what people was saying about me.. You are a new Christian ans sad to say that so many older christian tend to judge and forget what it was like for them when they first gave their heart to God.
I like to look at it like a baby, they stumble and fall plenty of times when they are learning to walk, but do we kick them and say you are no good you will never walk.. No we pick them up brush them off and help them try again.. Same is with a new babe in Christ, they have to be picked up encouraged to go on.. We are a work in progress, and Jesus is the mastermind of it. and if we let him do the work let him finish it . He will do a great work in us and use us greatly in his Kingdom.. I know God has a work for you.. I also know you have a great desire to serve God I have listen to you many times, share.
A hard think to learn is to not look at what others say but focus on God..
You will be ok.. Don't let them run my peaches away.. * Hugs*
I will be praying for you.


Senior Member
Mar 7, 2009
Please come back on!! I miss your jamming in You Sing!!!! I believe this is some kind of attack on you bro. Don't let critical people or lies get in the way! I have only been chatting here for a short time but I have been on the receiving end of some massive encouragement from peeps here, don't close the door on that. I have also been blessed by those who come in and play music like you do (you were also one of the first to talk to me here!). God will work it out, just continue trusting him in everything. Take care man, Im prayin for ya too!
God bless u heaps...


I was on facebook and myspace and it was a lot of drama thats just not a good way to communicate unless you are keeping in touch with family and friends thats far away. It cause a lot of problems in my marriage in the past year so I deleted it last month and I feel a lot better about it.


Junior Member
Jun 16, 2011
Be strong in the Lord, In the power of his might...You shall live a good life because Jesus loves you, because Jesus died for you..

Who can put a charge/point finger to you? No one, for it is the Lord who justifies (Romans 8) Amen...


Senior Member
Apr 20, 2009
Praying for ou in Jesus Christ is Lord that all wisdom of the Holy Spirit will guide you.

God bless.


Senior Member
Jan 1, 2002
As you can see from the posts and I'm sure a few private messages, you are loved and appreciated around here. We don't want to see you go.
But we do understand that at times life calls for tough decisions and stuff. For what it's worth, if there is anything I/we can do to help out please give us a shout.

You add character to the place :)


Senior Member
Feb 10, 2010
Arkansas/Oklahoma Border
Oh my.. This was from two years ago. It drives me nuts when people go digging through old threads and bring them up for no reasons.. Anywho as we can see ol' Dan is still around lol.