dont know what to do or feel

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sandtigeress

sandtigeress

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Apr 29, 2013
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Hi,

here i am again. I do not have a specific wish :) or too many :),
but I would like some generall prayer.

My partner of 14 years started breaking up with me a year ago. The seperation of goods (living space) was effective only a year later. I have prayed, fought and held on. But I no longer know, what is right or wrong.

The situation has been blocking my thoughts and overwhelmed me at many times.
My (Ex?)partner is not really consistent, there were times, when we were so close, time he did not want to (permanently) loose me, and times, when he said, he does not love me anymore and does not want me to be with him.
He said, I would be a logical choice, but he simple does not feel ...
Well whatever.

I am a bit at loose end at the moment. I do not really know, what direction god wants me to go on to.

I am always praying against, that feeling of hate, and distain, that I feel for my (ex)partner [s behaviour].
I do not really know where to go on from here.

Family is very importend for me, and I do not understand, how this seperation could have happend and I do not understand, why it does not change.

So some prayer would be very much appreciated.
 
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Angel010

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Hi I feel your pain I am going through the same thing well very close to it . I will pray for you please pray for me The Lord does have a plan I know he does God bless
 
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Jullianna

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Father, I pray for peace, wisdom and direction for sandtigress. Heal her hurting heart and encourage her. Lead her into Your Word, give her understanding and guide her steps in the Name of our Lord Jesus.
 
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lucyto

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Lord take their hands and lead them in the direction that You want them to take. Only You knows what is happening and what they are supposed to do in this situation. They have their own desires but You desire the best for them. 14 years is a very long time and to separate from someone after such a long time is definitely heart breaking and only You Lord can mend their broken relationship. In Jesus name, AMEN.
 
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Lucy68

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So sorry you're hurting....may God be your comforter and counselor.

Praying for strength for you and the healing of your heart. Without the marriage commitment, relationships will suffer. A Christian living with a non-believer will bring a lot of heartache. But God CAN get you through it and lead you to a healthy and happy relationship with a fellow believer. May He give you a vision of what marriage can be :).

Do you have a church family? The love and encouragement of a church family can be wonderful :)
 
sandtigeress

sandtigeress

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Apr 29, 2013
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I wish it would stop hurting so much. It does not make any sense.
 
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