Family matters

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Ugly

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#21
#21
LittleBit1987 said:
The reason I want to have a baby is:
A) to be the mother I never had
B) give this special kind of love I have to a little bundle that I can't give my husband
C) start my own loving family that I never had.


I don't think this is too much to ask..
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All i said was to be watchful of your expectations. No need to get rude to someone trying to be helpful.
 
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J-Kay-2

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#22
#22
Ugly said:
All i said was to be watchful of your expectations. No need to get rude to someone trying to be helpful.
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Ugly, I think she signed out. I know you meant well, but that was worded
just a little harshly. But, don't take offense to her reaction, I did not
help matters any either. So, please know it is sensitive enough for a woman
to want a baby so badly and hope every month....this might be it... and it
isn't. Add that fact to the reason she came here to us to start with and
that was a bad relationship with her mom. She is hurting, Ugly. And we
hurt her too. If you read what I wrote, it was not that far from coming
across same as you. Okay? Please let's go easy and ask God to heal her
wounds and may she forgive us for pouring vinegar in a wound that stings.
God bless you and let us agree she will be ministered to by Jesus. Amen?
 
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LittleBit1987

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#23
#23
After much time of thinking, and praying.. And during church service this morning, Ugly, and J~Kay~2, thank you both for saying the truth. And making me realize that having a baby wouldn't fill that void I have in my heart.... It took my pastor this morning to say that I need to ask my mom for forgiveness, cause of this hatred I have in my heart for her. In order for me to move on with my life and possibly have this baby I am wanting, I need to make things right with my mother. It won't be easy but then again, no one ever said life was easy..... Just worth it. And I know after I let go of this stress, and ask my mom to forgive me, and me forgive her, it won't be long till God blesses me with what my heart solely desires.

Again, Ugly and J~Kay~2- thank you for being so honest, and blunt with the truth... I greatly appreciate all the advice and encouragement I receive from all of you, and from other CC people.

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