Going through a divorce

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Sky87

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Me and my husband have been married for 5 years and together for 7. He just responded to my divorce and its in the process now of being finalized after we go to court. He said he wants to split custody with me however, I found a facebook he created pretending to be a 15 year old child and was talking inappropriately to children. He also went to jail last week for a grabbing me by the neck and putting a hole in our wall. He hits walls a lot. I have always tried to make excuses for his behavior like he has been through a lot because he was molested by his sister for 5 years but he never cares about how me and our children feel. We are going to court on the 13 he said he wants full custody. Also he acts like he doesnt care that we are getting a divorce I put so much into trying to make things work but he just doesnt seem to realize anything I have done. Please pray for me to have favor in the court room. For God to work on my children's father (his heart). He has a sense of entitlement. For him to realize I gave him everything and he never appreciated it. (lol) also for my emotions to get in tact I been really sad lately.
 

pickles

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Hugs Sky, all you ask for and more are in my prayers in Jesus Christ is Lord.
Praying for all custody and protection for you and your children for as long as needed.

Hugs and God bless:)
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Me and my husband have been married for 5 years and together for 7. He just responded to my divorce and its in the process now of being finalized after we go to court. He said he wants to split custody with me however, I found a facebook he created pretending to be a 15 year old child and was talking inappropriately to children. He also went to jail last week for a grabbing me by the neck and putting a hole in our wall. He hits walls a lot. I have always tried to make excuses for his behavior like he has been through a lot because he was molested by his sister for 5 years but he never cares about how me and our children feel. We are going to court on the 13 he said he wants full custody. Also he acts like he doesnt care that we are getting a divorce I put so much into trying to make things work but he just doesnt seem to realize anything I have done. Please pray for me to have favor in the court room. For God to work on my children's father (his heart). He has a sense of entitlement. For him to realize I gave him everything and he never appreciated it. (lol) also for my emotions to get in tact I been really sad lately.
Did he commit adultery?

Matthew 19:9- 'Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.
 
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jkalyna

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AGREEING FOR HEALING.
 

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Me and my husband have been married for 5 years and together for 7. He just responded to my divorce and its in the process now of being finalized after we go to court. He said he wants to split custody with me however, I found a facebook he created pretending to be a 15 year old child and was talking inappropriately to children. He also went to jail last week for a grabbing me by the neck and putting a hole in our wall. He hits walls a lot. I have always tried to make excuses for his behavior like he has been through a lot because he was molested by his sister for 5 years but he never cares about how me and our children feel. We are going to court on the 13 he said he wants full custody. Also he acts like he doesnt care that we are getting a divorce I put so much into trying to make things work but he just doesnt seem to realize anything I have done. Please pray for me to have favor in the court room. For God to work on my children's father (his heart). He has a sense of entitlement. For him to realize I gave him everything and he never appreciated it. (lol) also for my emotions to get in tact I been really sad lately.

The Lord is near!

Psa 145:18 The Lord is near all those who call on Him, all those who call on Him in truth.
Psa 145:19 He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He also will hear their cry, and will save them.
Psa 145:20 The Lord watches over all those who love Him; but all the wicked He will destroy.
Yes the Lord is near; He is near to those who call on Him in truth, which means out of a pure heart, an obedient faith, along with a humble spirit that has been absolutely broken in repentance!
To fear God is to know Him, to respect His awesome power over sin and temptation, and also to obey and keep His commands as He wills His true followers to do!
And when the broken, repentant soul cries out as the whole city of Nineveh did, He will save them as they cried out for mercy and forgiveness because they were cut to the heart as to their great sin and disobedience to almighty God!
And now the best of the best of God! He watches over and protects His true saints, which are those who love and fear Him supremely, and have come to Him on His terms as commanded, which simply is repentance unto Him, followed by faith (obedience) unto His son Jesus Christ!
Act 20:21 Testifying both to the Jews, and also to the Greeks, repentance toward God and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ.
But there is a catch here, since many who profess Christ as their savior have failed to understand. Those who have failed to come to God on His terms, through the repentance process, and are still in great bondage to the world and sin, God will destroy, which doesn’t mean a slap on the wrist, to all who think you can be IN sin, and IN Christ at the same time!
The wicked are simply the ones who have the pride and arrogance to call themselves followers of Christ, but openly admit they are addicted to many vile sins, or admit they struggle constantly by falling into willful disobedience to God, trampling on the precious blood of Christ over and over again!
God is no respecter of any person, but gives His grace and mercy to the humble, who are not perfect, BUT perfectly obey His commands, keeping themselves unspotted from the world, and any willful sin and disobedience!
Psa 117:1 O praise the LORD, all ye nations: praise him, all ye people.
Psa 117:2 For his merciful kindness is great toward us: and the truth of the LORD endureth for ever. Praise ye the LORD!
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Hi Sky87. It is tragic to hear somebody is getting divorced. Violence is the last thing you want in your family. Children growing up with violence around them all the time will only become adults with violence natures. This is no good. Children needs to be cared for first, irrespective. The court will view the situation and I trust the decision will be to the children's advantage. You will feel alone and insecure in the beginning but remember, you are not alone. God is always there. Go down on your knees and talk to Him. Ask Him for His guidance and do what He asks from you. I have gone through it myself and it is not easy, but know this, God is there for you. He knows your name and will carry you through whatever your problem is. Just trust and believe in Him.