Having trouble with my mind

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Johnny110

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I never dated in my teens. Or even much in my 20's. I have been in a relationship for almost two years now. It's been a hard road. Sadly I lost my virginty with her. She had been active with a few guys before me. Not that it was at all her fault. I love her and her daughter. She turns 4 in two days! We where set to get married June 14. One thing that has always been apart of our relationship has been a lot of anger. I always thought of myself as a fairly calm guy but I feel like I've become very anger. Many times something will set her off and she will start yelling and calling me down. Sometimes hitting and punching. With great shame I have to admit the odd time after being punched hard enough I've lost it and pinned her to the floor. I've had bloody noses often been asked why I have marks on my face at work. I always lie. Anyways I love them both more then anything. But I sometimes feel like I've lost all self respect. My relationship with God has gotten thin. She cheated on me two times. I'm not sure if we're together anymore but please pray for me I often feel like I'm going crazy cause I always want her back.
 
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levi85

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will pray that your present situation improve , and you can share your testimonies and be a messenger of God for others,who are going through the situation likes others, submit yourselves completely to God, will pray that God will comfort, and the relationship be renewed, Amen
 
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ji

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Johnny110 said:
I never dated in my teens. Or even much in my 20's. I have been in a relationship for almost two years now. It's been a hard road. Sadly I lost my virginty with her. She had been active with a few guys before me. Not that it was at all her fault. I love her and her daughter. She turns 4 in two days! We where set to get married June 14. One thing that has always been apart of our relationship has been a lot of anger. I always thought of myself as a fairly calm guy but I feel like I've become very anger. Many times something will set her off and she will start yelling and calling me down. Sometimes hitting and punching. With great shame I have to admit the odd time after being punched hard enough I've lost it and pinned her to the floor. I've had bloody noses often been asked why I have marks on my face at work. I always lie. Anyways I love them both more then anything. But I sometimes feel like I've lost all self respect. My relationship with God has gotten thin. She cheated on me two times. I'm not sure if we're together anymore but please pray for me I often feel like I'm going crazy cause I always want her back.
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If she has a kid from another man and if he is still alive,get out of that relationship.
Please Read the Holy Bible completely....its not spontaneous,develop a habit.
If we cannot stay away from outside temptations,how are we going to withstand problems in personal life.
Sorry,i know it was harsh,but told it for your Good.
Get back and connect yourself with God again and He will bring the right one.And you protected yourselves from sexual immorality till you saw this particular woman(wrong choice) is a Victory.Stay with God,sooner or later Good times will come:)Enjoy Life with God,all things are possible.
Take your time,Pray and choose...

God Bless:)
 
damombomb

damombomb

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Bless him Lord, with peace and understanding, in Jesus name all for your glory
 
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jb800m

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lord i am praying you speak wisdom to this family the man and woman and her daughter... lord speak right to the very depths of their hearts words of wisdom words of encouragmeent.. let no other fruitless actions or words come and land in their beings that only the truth will shine ... lord i ask you light the pathy that each of them must take.. weather together or apart that you ghive the a clear understanding and the strength tom walk forward
 
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