First question I have, is realneedy even still part of this discussion?
Why would you ask such a thing? His last post was one day ago, he may be a one post wonder or not.
Second, how do you become a senior member almost overnight?
Hax man, powerful hax. That or updating my E-Mail address reset my join date. I dunno, so I'll just go with the first answer.
Final question, JGPS, why do you insist on playing devil's advocate in prayer forums to advance your polygamy agenda?
I've been forthright in this fourm. The devil's got a good solid hook on heirofchrist over there as he's mucked in asceticism and his own culture, but that's another matter. Scratch that, if you knew what devil meant you'd realize that you're it. But we'll deal with that later.
One of the fruits of spiritual living is self control.
Congrats, you got something right.
Would you tell someone suffering from gluttony to eat until you can't eat anymore, then you won't be tempted as much?
Gluttony is an excess outlined in scripture. Sex addiction is a concept from the 70's that may or may not be related to actual disorders. It's generally safe to assume that if someone has a diagnosed disorder they'll use the proper term for it. So what we're talking about is likely no more or less than his desire outweighing his judgment...
Clearly you have ignored suggestions for Godly living and have validated your own lack of self control with lust.
Yes, that's right, you see seeking a marriage partner that meets needs as ungodly.
Clearly reading scripture is out of the question for you since you've become emotionally engaged to attack something that makes you uncomfortable...
You have no idea how far realneedy might have slipped down a lustful slope.
My idea is that he's fornicated. That seems quite plain. However that's been done it amounts to the same thing. How wilfully ignorant do you have to be to think anyone here doesn't see that?
There are people who are reading these posts who may very well be visiting prostitutes, participating in orgies and multiple fornication.
Yes. That's true. And if they are they should seek a proper mar ridge and be aware that they ought to take responsibility for anyone they sleep with. Bearing that in mind may help them not fornicate in the future.
Oh yes, advice to pray for marriage is toxic according to you. Advice to bear in mind the seriousness of sex before he does it is also toxic according to you. I'm supposing anything beyond 'pray for the problem to disappear' is out of the question here.
It's actually quite infuriating. So many Christians can't get over the S word that they can't think clearly about what a situation needs and what the Bible actually says about it. You should be ashamed of yourself calling advice to marry toxic. Doubly ashamed that you call me pointing out that he shouldn't have sex with anyone he won't commit too toxic.
This is getting to the point where it's greiveing my spirit. How can you possibly be so blind in this situation? You're so perveted that you see sex as something so evil that you think praying that he gets it is a BAD thing. It's amazing.
This forum is a haven for people to meet with believers and get intercession for their conviction and needs. I smell a wolf.
You ARE the wolf. You're standing against what scripture plainly and explicitly recommends because of your petty biases. And you're ready to throw around accusations rather than scripture to support your cause. That is what being a devil is, you're laying out false accusations...
But here, read.
Pro 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
1Co 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Like it or not, marriage is good. And if someone is too horny, they should marry. Considering a good wife is favour from the Lord, he's the one to talk to about getting one. Praying for a wife is the thing to do, and considering his needs the stipulation 'horny' is quite fitting.