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i am separated from my husband,
we have gone through severe trials in our 4 yr marriage
& those times have tested & tried uswithout a break= showing our true character
I am bitter,resentful,feeling hate
while at the same time i just want us to love each other like we did
I get real infuriated when he minimizes the damage & takes no accountability for himself
at the same time I know I have NO BUSINESS being unforgiving & unloving
i am angry bc my family is not a family & we never had a chance
many of our problems came in the door he left open
I am growing weary for doing good i extremely cynical distrustful, disgusted at what we have become
i hear myself say dig deep and remember the good and the beautiful , call him and say something nice or romantic
and then i bite, bite, bite at him bc i am in a grip of some serious unresolved anguish betrayal neglect
God provides for me: He is my keeper, my friend, my strength, my joy, my lover
I love HIM more than anyone & I know I must not interact with my husband in this way
I am having a horrible time getting over, i had much success in my emotions
however, my trigger finger is poppin--- i show him no HONOR
if there is hope for us i must forget I MUST FORGET
how?
there are no new memories together
there are no dreams made
no pillowtalk no prayers
no hope
a new beginning cannot happen in yesterdays routine
I need a NEW BEGINNING
i am scared at how much love i am losing
with every second of the day that passes i feel more alienated from that dusty forsaken memory of a love i had once
but it is all the same
no home here
no home there
no family here
no family there
so i remain-exhausted
and the colder i become inside
the more i blame him
i cannot stand us anymore
i no longer like who i am with him next to me
he doesnt know how bad it is
he doesnt hear me hasnt heard me
doesnt care
we have gone through severe trials in our 4 yr marriage
& those times have tested & tried uswithout a break= showing our true character
I am bitter,resentful,feeling hate
while at the same time i just want us to love each other like we did
I get real infuriated when he minimizes the damage & takes no accountability for himself
at the same time I know I have NO BUSINESS being unforgiving & unloving
i am angry bc my family is not a family & we never had a chance
many of our problems came in the door he left open
I am growing weary for doing good i extremely cynical distrustful, disgusted at what we have become
i hear myself say dig deep and remember the good and the beautiful , call him and say something nice or romantic
and then i bite, bite, bite at him bc i am in a grip of some serious unresolved anguish betrayal neglect
God provides for me: He is my keeper, my friend, my strength, my joy, my lover
I love HIM more than anyone & I know I must not interact with my husband in this way
I am having a horrible time getting over, i had much success in my emotions
however, my trigger finger is poppin--- i show him no HONOR
if there is hope for us i must forget I MUST FORGET
how?
there are no new memories together
there are no dreams made
no pillowtalk no prayers
no hope
a new beginning cannot happen in yesterdays routine
I need a NEW BEGINNING
i am scared at how much love i am losing
with every second of the day that passes i feel more alienated from that dusty forsaken memory of a love i had once
but it is all the same
no home here
no home there
no family here
no family there
so i remain-exhausted
and the colder i become inside
the more i blame him
i cannot stand us anymore
i no longer like who i am with him next to me
he doesnt know how bad it is
he doesnt hear me hasnt heard me
doesnt care