I feel the pain in your words, as you are experiencng two losses at once, and are in need of some reassurance that God really is in control, even if you are not able to grasp that thought at this moment. As a Christian, our only hope is in Christ, declaring He is who He says He is, regardless of our limitations to understand His ways.
I think if we are all honest, we will admit times in our own lives when circumstances spun out of control, and we were scrambling to hold on to hope. Yes, we are all human in need of a Savior to sustain us.
But yes, I will be honored to pray for you friend.
Our glorious and righteous Father in heaven, who makes intercession for us, I bring you this precious dear soul who is seraching for meaning to these events transpiring all at once. I pray right now that you will safeguard her heart and her mind in Christ Jesus, and let her know that any weapon formed against her will not prosper, but must be obedient to your will. I pray that your mercy and grace will pull her forward, and that her focus could remain on you and not what is going on around her.
I pray you will cause her husband to be available for mature for honest communication, and that you will place before his eyes, the truth about his actions and how they might be violating his marriage vows.
Thank you Jesus, that you give us freedom to seek you with all our hearts, and that you hear us when we call out to you. You are forever King Jesus, and we thank you that you chose to make us your own. Help my friend stand strong in the face of her adversity. Let your peace rule in her heart as she trusts in you. Amen