Lainie my heart goes out to you. Read the scriptures and claim the promises of God's word upon your life and your husband and your marriage. The word of God says that we are to trust Him with all our heart, lean not on our understanding, acknowledge Him in everything and He shall direct our path. Sister hand over the situation to God ask Him to take control ask Him to place on your lips and heart the words to say to your husband and ask Him to calm you so that you do not do anything to inflame the situation. Love him unconditionally do not fight him verbally etc let every thing you do for him be out of love. Pray without ceasing for him he is under the attack the enemy has obtained a stronghold upon him you need to ask God to pull it down. Cover your marriage in the blood cover your union cover him and cover yourself. Cover your past, present and future. Ask God to guard your hearts and minds. Speak life into your marriage. Claim the victory in Jesus name.
Prayer....
Father God in the name of Jesus I humbly come before you I lift up in prayer dear God my sister and her husband. I sprinkle the blood of Jesus upon them dear God, I sprinkle the blood of Jesus all on the atmosphere around them upon the altar. Upon the words of this prayer.
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth whom all authority was given, I come against the unclean spirit of rebellion that is in my sister's husband, I bind it, loosen its hold upon him and rebuke it!
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth I break the chains and the bondage that is upon this individual. In the name of Jesus of Nazareth I pull down the stronghold of rebellion from the enemy on his thoughts. Let all arguments and pretension that have set itself against the knowledge of You Lord be demolished! Dear God I take into captive every thought into obedience of Christ!
Dear God I humbly ask in Jesus name, that You extend Your mercy and shine Your face upon him. I humbly ask that You cleanse him with your living water; that You take out his heart of stone from his flesh and give him a heart of flesh. I ask that You circumcise his heart and remove that foreskin. Lord God establish Your covenant of love in him so that he may once again want to walk in Your statutes and keep Your judgments.
Purpose his heart once again to seek You so he can find you! Touch Him Lord! Renew his mind dear God. Restore his faith.
Dear God I also ask that You embrace them with Your presence that you clothe them with Your armor. Your word states that we can do anything in Christ who strengthens me I claim these words over my sister. Strengthen her dear Lord, guide her steps fill her with Your wisdom and Your knowledge. Let Your salvation be upon Him today. In Jesus name I pray. Amen Amen!