This post reps my POV, of course many things I did not personally witness; but I believe what I post is true (this could be a movie) -- please pray as you read this:
My son had a girl friend with whom he was greatly infatuated. Unfortunately, he shacked up with her without marriage (semi moving into her house) though a Bible college graduate. He started a new & profitable medical tech company which had the prospects of making millions. She was having needs after needs, leading him to spend ~ a million dollars on her. But one day he spotted an email of hers to a lady friend where she said she should marry my son & take his millions (which he did not yet have). But he did not take it to heart.
They quarreled & had a big blow up on May 7 (2 months later she would go & file charges against him with the DA over it.). On May 8 she went with her brother to a hospital where she was given a SANE (rape) kit test, but probably the test came back negative evidence for recent sex.
In June she went out on 3 dates with my son. After one of them she spent the night in bed with him (though no sex). She continued to have needs, & he gave her ~$30,000 and a $10,000 engagement ring which she wore to a fancy affair with him & was photographed wearing it. Soon she would sell the ring.
In July she turned hostile again. My son played the fool sending her way too many emails/texts, trying to get her back. He went over to her house more than once trying to impose himself on her. He was ejected by the police at least once. Once she pointed a gun at him, & he left. Once she called a business associate who escorted my son out.
She went to an attorney & then to a judge who issued a Temporary Protective Order vs my son (ex parte, without my son knowing a thing about it). The TPO was served on my son, forbidding him to go the hospitals where he worked (because the girl friend also worked there). My son went & hired a lawyer who specialized in dog bites & accidents. A hearing was set for ~ 2 days later. But on the night before the hearing, my son was arrested by a deputy and put in jail on a charge of sexual assault, sworn out by the girl friend with her lawyer. My son's lawyer let the proceeding start & the girl friend testify while my son could not attend because of jail.
My son borrowed money & posted $25,000 bail & got out for the 2nd day of the hearing, but he could not testify because of the criminal charge of sexual assault and his defense attorney (incompetent) telling him not to testify. That defense attorney didn't even attend the family hearing to cross-examine the ex girl friend, who lied through her teeth. So my son could not defend himself, neither did his crack pot family court attorney bring forth important evidence. The Family Court Judge severely denounced my son & issued a 5 year Protective Order forbidding him to go to about 25 hospitals where he had been working. Part of the basis of putting the order on my son was the judge's claim that when I and my wife wrote letters to the ex, that violated his TRO; but my son never asked us to write her, and we did not know there was any Protective order in place at the time.
On the heels of this, the girl friend's atty had a husband attorney who deal with corporate law. Suddenly the girl friend claimed she was the rightful owner of his business. Her attorney went to civil court to restrain my son from his own company & to give the business to the ex girl friend on the basis of fraudulent documents. Suddenly my sons 2 corporate lawyers declined to represent him because they had had dealings with the girl friend, & it would be a conflict of interest. Without effective lawyer, my son lost his company temporarily to the ex girl friend. She quickly moved $200,000 out of the company to her own private account.
Meanwhile, after the Protective Order had been entered, forbidding my son to approach within 500 feet of the ex girl friend on pain of Contempt of Court & directly to jail -- after this PO, the ex girl friend contacted my son twice by email trying to get him to date her, which would be a temptation to get him slapped in jail. But he turned that over to his atty & didn't go for it.
But Christians were praying for him.
My son hired a new legal team of civil corporate atty, Family atty, & Criminal atty, costing a load of money.
In the Criminal Case, an evidentiary hearing was held, which was a rubber stamp really on awful hearsay -- I couldn't believe it. Then the case went to Grand Jury, where he was able to submit a letter (without cross exam) explaining his side of the story. It is a low percent of Grand Jury cases which don't get a TRUE BILL, but his got a NO BILL (praise the Lord). So the charges are now dropped on the criminal case.
In the Corporate Civil Case, the new atty was able quickly to restore my son to his manager rold in his company, but the case is still unresolved. However, since the Corporate papers say that disputes have to go first to Mediation, then to Arbitration (& not to Civil Court), a Mediation was scheduled between the parties for last Thursday. But praise the Lord, the girl friend & her attorney flaked out and did not attend the Mediation. So I am hoping that this flake-out means it will be over in my son's favor. Her side made a fatal flaw (IMHO), by dating fraudulent "shares" in her name as issued on February 29, 2014 (date does not exist). It is also probably that because of her professional status in another field, it is illegal for her to own the type of business my son has.
As to the Family Court Protective Order, it was to be retried de novo by another judge on appeal. It is like the first trial is a quickly kangaroo court against men on the theory that women are persecuted & must be protected despite doubt. But suddenly the new judge recused herself & the case was sent to another judge. Apparently thus far no new hearing has been put on the docket in this new court. It may be that the ex girl friend & her lawyer will give up on it.
Things to pray about:
1) deposition: All witnesses to the PO hearing are supposed to give depositions in private; that means the ex is now to be effectively cross-examined (time limit of 6 hours).
2) due process: this new judge limits the new hearing to only 1 1/2 hours!
3) the new judge herself.
My son is half Hispanic, half white (like George Zimmerman), the judgess (like his ex, is a light skinned Afro-american) who showed on YouTube great sympathy of Trayvon Martin, & against the jury that acquitted Zimmerman. He is a member of a black church that has a pastor who calls Obama's pastor (Jeremiah Wright), "Daddy J." She is a member of segregated black organizations. On the positive side, she quotes the Bible. She was possibly motivated to run for judge to seek justice for blacks.
Scripture says that the King's heart is in the hand of the Lord. So only God knows the heart, if this judgess is a strong racist or will be fair. She could be asked to recuse herself. But I don't think my son's atty wants to do that yet.
So pray. Pray that the ex will be saved & led to repent as consistent with the truth, and that my son will not be unjustly punished on the basis of perjury. This could end with the ex asking that the suit be dropped. To God be the glory. I hope my son learns his lesson on the price of fornication.
My son had a girl friend with whom he was greatly infatuated. Unfortunately, he shacked up with her without marriage (semi moving into her house) though a Bible college graduate. He started a new & profitable medical tech company which had the prospects of making millions. She was having needs after needs, leading him to spend ~ a million dollars on her. But one day he spotted an email of hers to a lady friend where she said she should marry my son & take his millions (which he did not yet have). But he did not take it to heart.
They quarreled & had a big blow up on May 7 (2 months later she would go & file charges against him with the DA over it.). On May 8 she went with her brother to a hospital where she was given a SANE (rape) kit test, but probably the test came back negative evidence for recent sex.
In June she went out on 3 dates with my son. After one of them she spent the night in bed with him (though no sex). She continued to have needs, & he gave her ~$30,000 and a $10,000 engagement ring which she wore to a fancy affair with him & was photographed wearing it. Soon she would sell the ring.
In July she turned hostile again. My son played the fool sending her way too many emails/texts, trying to get her back. He went over to her house more than once trying to impose himself on her. He was ejected by the police at least once. Once she pointed a gun at him, & he left. Once she called a business associate who escorted my son out.
She went to an attorney & then to a judge who issued a Temporary Protective Order vs my son (ex parte, without my son knowing a thing about it). The TPO was served on my son, forbidding him to go the hospitals where he worked (because the girl friend also worked there). My son went & hired a lawyer who specialized in dog bites & accidents. A hearing was set for ~ 2 days later. But on the night before the hearing, my son was arrested by a deputy and put in jail on a charge of sexual assault, sworn out by the girl friend with her lawyer. My son's lawyer let the proceeding start & the girl friend testify while my son could not attend because of jail.
My son borrowed money & posted $25,000 bail & got out for the 2nd day of the hearing, but he could not testify because of the criminal charge of sexual assault and his defense attorney (incompetent) telling him not to testify. That defense attorney didn't even attend the family hearing to cross-examine the ex girl friend, who lied through her teeth. So my son could not defend himself, neither did his crack pot family court attorney bring forth important evidence. The Family Court Judge severely denounced my son & issued a 5 year Protective Order forbidding him to go to about 25 hospitals where he had been working. Part of the basis of putting the order on my son was the judge's claim that when I and my wife wrote letters to the ex, that violated his TRO; but my son never asked us to write her, and we did not know there was any Protective order in place at the time.
On the heels of this, the girl friend's atty had a husband attorney who deal with corporate law. Suddenly the girl friend claimed she was the rightful owner of his business. Her attorney went to civil court to restrain my son from his own company & to give the business to the ex girl friend on the basis of fraudulent documents. Suddenly my sons 2 corporate lawyers declined to represent him because they had had dealings with the girl friend, & it would be a conflict of interest. Without effective lawyer, my son lost his company temporarily to the ex girl friend. She quickly moved $200,000 out of the company to her own private account.
Meanwhile, after the Protective Order had been entered, forbidding my son to approach within 500 feet of the ex girl friend on pain of Contempt of Court & directly to jail -- after this PO, the ex girl friend contacted my son twice by email trying to get him to date her, which would be a temptation to get him slapped in jail. But he turned that over to his atty & didn't go for it.
But Christians were praying for him.
My son hired a new legal team of civil corporate atty, Family atty, & Criminal atty, costing a load of money.
In the Criminal Case, an evidentiary hearing was held, which was a rubber stamp really on awful hearsay -- I couldn't believe it. Then the case went to Grand Jury, where he was able to submit a letter (without cross exam) explaining his side of the story. It is a low percent of Grand Jury cases which don't get a TRUE BILL, but his got a NO BILL (praise the Lord). So the charges are now dropped on the criminal case.
In the Corporate Civil Case, the new atty was able quickly to restore my son to his manager rold in his company, but the case is still unresolved. However, since the Corporate papers say that disputes have to go first to Mediation, then to Arbitration (& not to Civil Court), a Mediation was scheduled between the parties for last Thursday. But praise the Lord, the girl friend & her attorney flaked out and did not attend the Mediation. So I am hoping that this flake-out means it will be over in my son's favor. Her side made a fatal flaw (IMHO), by dating fraudulent "shares" in her name as issued on February 29, 2014 (date does not exist). It is also probably that because of her professional status in another field, it is illegal for her to own the type of business my son has.
As to the Family Court Protective Order, it was to be retried de novo by another judge on appeal. It is like the first trial is a quickly kangaroo court against men on the theory that women are persecuted & must be protected despite doubt. But suddenly the new judge recused herself & the case was sent to another judge. Apparently thus far no new hearing has been put on the docket in this new court. It may be that the ex girl friend & her lawyer will give up on it.
Things to pray about:
1) deposition: All witnesses to the PO hearing are supposed to give depositions in private; that means the ex is now to be effectively cross-examined (time limit of 6 hours).
2) due process: this new judge limits the new hearing to only 1 1/2 hours!
3) the new judge herself.
My son is half Hispanic, half white (like George Zimmerman), the judgess (like his ex, is a light skinned Afro-american) who showed on YouTube great sympathy of Trayvon Martin, & against the jury that acquitted Zimmerman. He is a member of a black church that has a pastor who calls Obama's pastor (Jeremiah Wright), "Daddy J." She is a member of segregated black organizations. On the positive side, she quotes the Bible. She was possibly motivated to run for judge to seek justice for blacks.
Scripture says that the King's heart is in the hand of the Lord. So only God knows the heart, if this judgess is a strong racist or will be fair. She could be asked to recuse herself. But I don't think my son's atty wants to do that yet.
So pray. Pray that the ex will be saved & led to repent as consistent with the truth, and that my son will not be unjustly punished on the basis of perjury. This could end with the ex asking that the suit be dropped. To God be the glory. I hope my son learns his lesson on the price of fornication.
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