Pregnant and left alone by husband.

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liebesfreude

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Brothers and sisters in Christ please help me pray for strength and restoration of my family and my relationship with my husband. I'm 7 months pregnant with our 2nd child and my husband just left me tonight with our 6 years old daughter 1 day before Christmas. He told me about 2 months ago now that he had a one-night-stand with another woman because he felt that he no longer love me. I have done and have said a lot of nasty things out of schock from the situation, made a suicide attempt that landed me in a psychiatric hospital. And though I beg him on my knees not to separate from me and destroy our family esp. to our unborn child he remains hard and firm on his decision to break up from me as he sees no future with me as he don't love me anymore. He is an unbeliever but a nice person, husband and father of our child. I have been suffering from depression for the last 7 years of our relationship and it was getting worst as years went by because I didn't took it seriously and have not seek help or done anything about it. Now he simply gets tired and left me. And though something good has come out of it because I found my way back to God (I'm an on-and-off Christian) I am asking God to restore us, my husband to love me back and not to destroy our family esp. our children. I'm praying for strenght that I could stand this.
 
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Ecclesiastik

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Hello liebes,

My prayers go out to you. I've read what you have said and I am greatly concerned. Above all, for the state of your soul. You are in such turmoil right now and you choose to look to faith and I am grateful to the Lord for this. Please look to the example of Job who was greatly patient when basically everything was taken from him but his life.

You say that you are an on and off again Christian. I warn you out of love that this is not a good thing. It makes your salvation questionable at best. Please look to the Lord not just in this tragedy but to save your immortal soul and that of your husband. There is nothing more important than this.

My prayers go out to you.
 
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You are not alone. I am also without any family, it has been destroyed by ill will and judgments. I don't have the responsibility of taking care of children, only myself but almost blind and the strength of being 88, it isn't easy.

But I am not alone. I live in a world with God, one where if my family listened to God it would be filled with joy and love. I can have this within me, I can know it is the world that is the most real one. I use my time to send blessings to my family. I send them my love.

All of this is the real world, the physical one that sin has created will disappear, it is temporary, and the spiritual world will be all that is left. You can be part of this real world. But each "ain't it just awful" thought, everything that isn't of God pulls you away from reality. You can choose. You are strong, and you have all of God's wisdom to draw on.

So go wash your face and put on some lipstick. Kiss and bless your child, all of cc sends blessings. Everyone is praying for you, and God listens to our prayers. Your husband was not true, but God is. What God says in scripture is solid and you can have complete trust in it.

Isaiah 30:18 The Lord longs to be gracious to you; He rises to show you compassion. For the Lord is a God of justice. Blessed is all who wait for Him.

Numbers 6:24-26
The LORD bless thee, and keep thee: The LORD make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:
The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.
 

sandtigeress

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Prayers to you and to your husband and exspecially for your daughter, to whom it also must be very hard to have her
parents seperate at such a time.

I very much hope for you all, that you will be all better in the future and that god will heal your haerts, so that
you all can go on again to a better and loving future, as a loving family, where you are all able to forgive one
another and to learn to trust again.

Our Lord is with the brokenhearted.
 

Jruiz

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Ohh my gosh. I feel so bad for you..I been going through a similar situation with my husband..put god first! Read the bible everyday..listen to sermons on tv. Find a church to go too..but put god first. Put this ugly situation in gods hands and let him take care of it... It's hard I know but trust in god...amazing things happen when you put god first..and don't beg for him..it will only push him further away! Don't let him see you distraught and depressed..I'm serious.Message me if u would like to talk and I will pray for you...
 

pickles

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Hugs, praying for you and family in Jesus's name.

God bless
pickles
 
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liebesfreude

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Thank you everyone for the prayers, I felt God's love envelopes me through this tough time. My daughter comes home to be with me on Christmas Eve, it's only the two of us but we both enjoyed it and had a great time. I'm relying on God's strenght and I know He would bring me through. I am alone again now physically but I know and feel God's presence all around me. God is really good and he is worthy to be praised. Thank you all for your support, for your prayers and encouraging words may God bless you all.