Angelpie don't worry or be anxious, that will just drive your boyfriend away further. You need to change your behavior to change his. If he sees you as strong and in control, calm, gentle and loving. That should draw out the man God created him to be.
We are to have a gentle and quiet spirit full of inner beauty. This is what makes a man want to please his women.
A heart that is resting in the faithfulness of God is gentle and quiet; it is not stirred up with worry and anxiety. This gentle and quiet spirit is a calm, peaceful spirit. Compare this kind of spirit to a glassy lake, not turbulent or troubled, but hardly showing a ripple.
In contrast, the anxious spirit is like a stormy sea with whitecaps whipping along the shore.
Don't focus on the storm or turbulance of life; keep your eyes on Jesus.
This is like the Lord calming the troubled Sea of Galilee. Likewise, He can calm our troubled spirits when we look to Him.
Lord, help her be the women you want her to be. Help grow and cultivate that gentle and quiet spirit... that You desire for Angelpie to have... to show true beauty to the world...not the counterfeit beauty that the world has to offer that fades away.
1Peter 3:4
Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.
Phil 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.