the devil is trying to tare my marriage apart..

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cookie39

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HELLO MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, I AM IN NEED OF PRAYER... MY HUSBAND AND I AM HAVING TROUBLE, WE NEED YOU ALL TO GO BEFORE THE LORD IN AGREEMENT WITH US THAT GOD WILL THAT OUR MARRIAGE WILL STAY TOGETHER AND GROW STRONG, MOVING ALL PRIDE AND UNSELFISHNESS COMPLETELY OUT OF US AND EVERY ROOT CAUSES AND ALL MANIFESTATIONS THAT IS COMING FROM THEM.....PLEASE ASK THE FATHER TO MAKE THIS BOND FOREVER AND LETTING NOTHING AND NO ONE COME BETWEEN US. PRAY AS THE HOLY SPIRIT MOVES YOU... BINDING ALL UNGODLY spirits AND EVERY DOOR THE ENEMY HAS SHUT AND IS TRYING TO SHUT WILL BE OPEN AND EVERY DOOR THE DEVIL HAS OPENED THE IS AGAINST GOD WILL BE SHUT. IN the HOLY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST..... AMEN AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL THANK YOU....
 

eddie1801

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Praying for you and your husband. Question: Have you two thought about Christian marriage counseling at your church? Or are you guys open to it? I think it would be a great start if you have not. Hope everything works out..God can repair,renew, and put together any situation, circumstance, or relationship.
 
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richie_2uk

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I agree, God can fix anything that is broken.
 

cookie39

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Well we do not have a church home, kind of hard to find one that still preach the truth, or one that the pastors actually read the bible for him self..... So I am seeking my Family in the Lord to stand in the gap for us.... the Lord said where two or more of us touch in agreement on anything he said he will do it.... thank you all so very much and I thank God for you as well.... love you all with the love of the Lord....
 

pickles

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Hugs, praying in agreement in Jesus's name for you both with praise and thanksgiving.
Cookie, this scripture was set befor me for you and your husband....
commit all you do unto the Lord and He will bring it to compleation. :)

God bless
pickles
 

eddie1801

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Im glad to hear your faith in people "standing in the gap" in prayer for your marriage. However, I believe it is essential for you guys to find a church home. Pray about it. God will direct both of you to the right place that fits your family. It is important to note that there is no perfect church. Like anything in life, there is no perfect job, marriage, school, or church. Remember the bible saying "Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together ....but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching" So find a good place of worship. I really think you guys could use good christian counseling though. Give it a try..it could resolve a lot of issues. Your marriage is worth fight for.
 
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Share55

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Hello cookie39
I agree that good counselling would be of great value but before I found out my husband was terminally ill he was starting to act highly irrational and I couldn't figure out why. He accused me of all types of things but I didn't know he was having schizophrenic symptoms nor that he was also afraid of being very sick to dying and didn't want me to have to go through it with him.
I asked God what I should do, made note of my husbands complaints then checked to see how I could change myself to better our relationship. Some of his complaints were unfounded because we had a business and there were only so many hours in my day. I already worked 16 hours a day to keep the business going and doing more was impossible. I worked out a routine when I got home that I cleaned on my way to bed and out the door again in the morning. So the laundry was brought out and a load was put in on my way out the door, and the floors cleaned. We ate in the take out service at the store so there was no kitchen work to be done. Then I reversed the action on my way home drying, folding laundry and putting it away before I went home. I did what I could and when he blew up at me again I waited for him to finish and told him, if you haven't noticed, the house is clean, you have your meals else you will have to allow me to hire someone to help somewhere so the business isn't taking up so much of my time. If the changes I have made don't make you happy then I will just have to pack and leave as now I feel that that is what you want. I told him to make up his mind because at the end of the month I was leaving and never coming back. My word is set in stone and there will be no forgiveness and making up.
When it got to the week I was to leave he came in to the store at closing time and waited for me to finish up serving the last customers and locking up. He told me he didn't want me to leave but he was really concerned about his health. He said he felt that he was going to die and didn't want me to suffer through it.
I'm a really matter-of-fact type person so I may sound cold but I told him that instead of just letting things slide he should stop being so stubborn and go find a 'good' doctor.
We stayed married until he passed away the next year.
They always say it takes two to tango but when correcting wrongs we should look at ourselves first. How did the Bible put it; 'pull the log out of thine own eye first so you may see more clearly to pull the mote out of they brothers. That was the verse I based my action and decision on.
I pray all goes well for your marriage and seek God's wisdom and guidance to get you through. Be open because God is always open to you.