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  1. melita916

    Should women pursue men?

    I actually met my mother-in-law here on cc. She encouraged my husband and me to get to know each other. We exchanged email addresses and got to know each other as friends.
  2. melita916

    Should women pursue men?

    I gave up in a sense. I surrendered to the Lord my desire to marry. In His perfect timing, I met my now husband. All glory to Him.
  3. melita916

    Should women pursue men?

    My freshman year of college, I pursued my crush. He was not interested. So, I never pursued a guy again lol.
  4. melita916

    Should women pursue men?

    Good question! When I joined CC, I was single. Got married in 2017 and still post in the singles forum since I developed friendships here. I don’t post as often now a days. P.S. there are a few people who are married and post in the singles. ☺️
  5. melita916

    Should women pursue men?

    We have a newborn. She will be a week old tomorrow ❤️ and because our marriage’s foundation is the Lord, and my husband loves me as Christ loves the church, I love being his wife.
  6. melita916

    Should women pursue men?

    I love being a wife.
  7. melita916

    What has the Lord done for you today?

    He has blessed us with a beautiful baby girl! It has been tough getting used to the adjustments, but He is helping us ❤️
  8. melita916

    Is it possible to be too ugly to get IRL friends?

    I have a great personality :cool:
  9. melita916

    Is it possible to be too ugly to get IRL friends?

    When I had low self esteem, nobody could convince me I was beautiful. I had to surrender MY way of thinking to the Lord.
  10. melita916

    Is it possible to be too ugly to get IRL friends?

    They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Each person has his/her preferences. For a long time I thought I was ugly because I was only pursued once in my adult life. But my attitude communicated that I didn’t need anyone in my life. The Lord healed my heart. I later met the man I married.
  11. melita916

    Do christian women in general prefer a virgin man or a man with experiance?

    Btw, you claim I didn’t marry a virgin when I didn’t mention anything about my husband’s past. All I stated is there was a greater possibility I would marry someone with a past because of my age. I married at 33.
  12. melita916

    Do christian women in general prefer a virgin man or a man with experiance?

    wat when i was young, i wanted to marry a virgin. as the years went by, i knew that if i was going to get married and marry someone around my age, chances are he was going to have a past, whether he was divorced, a widower, someone who came to Christ later in life, or someone who made a mistake...
  13. melita916

    Why do christian women prefer a atheist/muslim husband?

    I’m a Christian woman who married a Christian man. Praise the Lord!
  14. melita916

    What Kind of Wife Do You Want?

    Reading your post blessed me! Praise the Lord for the relationship you and your wife have!
  15. melita916

    So There's a Big Plate of Chocolate Chip Cookies in Front of You And...

    We are having a baby girl in November :love::love:
  16. melita916

    So There's a Big Plate of Chocolate Chip Cookies in Front of You And...

    I know :( I need to be careful with sugar since I am eating for 2. But the other day, she asked for a chocolate milkshake. It was necessary lol.
  17. melita916

    Christian courtship - what does it entail??

    while dating, we talked about the future. a month into our relationship, he told me he was going to marry me. i know for some that would have scared them off, but for me, it let me know we weren't wasting each other's time. (we were also in our 30s, so it was awesome to know his intentions.) as...