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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    shiftwork...one covers day, one covers night, is how many parents manage. Breakfast so that you can work 10% more is that in terms of hours or rate of production (prouducing what?) I dont know if it actually works that way when breakfast is easily cold cereal for some or just a hot cuppa a...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    I was just thinking more in terms of who you feel are your brothers and sisters rather than a kind of individual adoption thing as regarding parents. Most teens have difficulties with their parents because they are experiencing hormones and wanting to be adults and equal and also contribute to...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    the reality of being a housewife is, you spend all day at home making it beautiful only to have children mess it up again lol if you dont have children it might be easier but it can be very boring doing housework day after day with nobody else to talk to. You want to do anything else rather than...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    sure I can pray I was sad to hear my car mechanic passed away last year, not sure if it was from overwork or not related to work. His wife worked in the office while he worked on the cars and sometimes I would see their children when they were off school hanging out near the garage. The...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    are the children young or what else does she do, if she doesnt work outside the home, is it a big house to maintain? Big houses or mansions just mean MORE housework. Does she garden? Is she in the PTA if children are in school or does she homeschool?
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    hmm the whole Im not into Asians is funny I dont think it means you just say well Im not actually asian Im a transplant. You cant change peoples fixed ideas of where you are from as if theyve never heard of a thing called global migration and that people should just never leave the land they are...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    I think some women dont care about the extra 30k and your wife probably wants more of YOU rather and forgo the 30k for your business, Unless you actually make her partner to your business. If she doesnt work WITH you then she has no idea what you do so how can she actually encourage you not...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    Seoul do you have brothers and sisters in your family and are they adopted as well or are you the only child? Just wondering. I have a christian friend whos parents adopted her, they very active in youth for christ ministry but it was within the family adoption not a cross cultural country...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    Joni Earackson Tada's husband is Korean American Jonis seems to me to be European American although what ethnicity of Europe I dont know. You supposed to tell things from last names I would assume its the Earacks people. The movie made of her life is interesting. It is based on her story...
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    Why are women in the church judged for being hypergamous?

    I think the question should be how much the OP makes, and she would mention a figure and the potential guy has to match it or go above, like an auction. Of course, in the old days brides were just sold rather than given away. You had to pay a bride price. Its called a dowry. The thing was it...
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    Why are women in the church judged for being hypergamous?

    why do they have to be tall? Is it so you can get to wear high heels? :LOL:
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    I was thinking about those Japanese salary men and their house I mean apartment wives. Japanese men spent most of their time at work and are way too tired to come home so during the week they might sleep in those pod capsule things so they dont have too far to go to work. To get promotion they...
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    A question for those who are or have been married

    Hmm I dont understand the 50:50 thing. Is it when someone say oh lets go out for a meal and then expects the bill to be split. Even if you maybe didnt eat as much or didnt have as much money. I suppose that works better for the person who has more? Maybe you dont drink but you actually end up...
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    A question for those who are or have been married

    Wouldnt a business partner want the same thing though..if you went into business together. Then if you didnt want to do business with them anymore, you would just agree to be apart. And become apartners? And live in apartments. I also wondered what co-parents are, are they different from just...
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    Why are women in the church judged for being hypergamous?

    I dont know if women are being judged in church for being hyper?whatever I think a lot of men actually assume women are there in church to serve them free scones and cups of tea. I once went to a huge church conference that was womens only and found out I had to pay extra for a cup of tea. I...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    Writing books isnt that fun I think writing on forums is funner lol At least you dont need to deal with the literati of publishing. Christian books can be so bland because the same sorts of people write them...pastors and pastors wives. If church is two minutes from your door then of course...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    Seoul that was my thoughts too Those women expect everything just because their parents might have done it doesnt mean they will be able to or know the true cost of it. Workaholic parents arent so wonderful, it might work for daughters to have stay at home mum (and how long for. For the rest of...
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    Why are women in the church judged for being hypergamous?

    Im just laughing at this because you would think from reading threads on CC singles the ONLY reason people ever go to church is because they want a spouse. why not just call them. what people sem to want - marriage centres or wedding warehouses instead of thinking they are anything about...
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    Why are women in the church judged for being hypergamous?

    Ok how about you just marry a banker. It will be fine as they can just make money out of thin air and you can always get a loan. The last memoir I read it was about a daughter of a banker. I dont think she was homeschooled but they went from place to place and her mother just followed her...