Its about having a place to release. Doesn't mean you don't work on the issue. But while dealing with stress you need to take care of yourself. Often the partner is ignoring your needs. So self care
I simply want to live in balance with nature. That applies regardless of faith. There's a lot to be said for a simpler life and understanding how the natives lived.
The energy of debate could be spent talking to people in challenging circumstances, regardless of their faith . Hearing them we learn how to help them.
Really sorry to hear about your situation friend. The early years of having a family are super tough. I got to say that many men take up hobbies due to the coldness at home.
Well done for flagging this.