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    Hi

    Morning. Hope you find the page useful
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    Who would want someone w/ my problems?

    It's the ones who appear to have no problems that I worry about. Perfection is usually a lie
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    Sinful lust or normally functioning hormones?

    Sex drive... natural physical need. A gift. Consider it a locked treasure. Not for just anyone..... Lust, is in the mind. Says' I want, I can'. Making love. The spirit wants to join a life partner to celebrate creation
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    Favorite scene

    I found that anything from little house on the prairie. Charles Ingles was my role model. But I sent the bar too high.
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    Singleness: Blessing or curse?

    You got any advice for those in your shoes?
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    Hi, I'm Tina - just finding my way back to God

    I gave up trying to to control finances because I realised that I was not the type of person that would be successful with money. The way I see it, I live buy banking with the bank of God. I will learn what I can without cheating. Weather I earn lots or less I no longer control
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    Singleness: Blessing or curse?

    When u hope for love and want to progress in life, being single seems empty. One u experienced relationship pain, u are glad to be free. My issue is with the media. Marriage is portrayed as a holiday. I'd suggest that you see it as a hike up a mountain. Pick the partner for the journey...
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    Lust

    I will share one day. Takes me a long time to open up. Sometimes people start with kind, then switched to manipulative behaviour. So I'm taking my time here
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    Lust

    You are kind. I'm sometimes not very clear. Typically the emotional feeling gets strong and my typing or speech gets muddled. Thanks
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    Lust

    So sorry to hear that you are went through the pain. I was confused with similar issues and had affairs for decades due to the tangled mind. Took me 35 years to get beyond. The topic is awkward for most i talked to. Self have struck. In the end only god could help. But the taboo held me back...
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    Open marriage

    As someone who has been in a open relationship with a church couple. Its always great for the first year. Then there's a decline. You loose years. And feel regret later
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    Why Does Society Seem to Think That Cougars... Should Be Shot? (Older Woman and Younger Men.)

    I agree with most of what you said. But I think most of it comes down to a mental connection. I think the type of relationship is looked down upon on because ciety seems to think the younger male will be naive and easily manipulated. But they don't criticize the men. Do its sexism. Pure and simple
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    Lust

    I can say to you guys is that it doesn't get any easier as you get older. And it's almost harder in a big city because of the level of temptation and anonymity in relationships puts available even in bigger churches where people seem to come in and out. I think it's very brave of you to raise...
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    How is loneliness while single different from loneliness in marriage?

    I found that silence during a debate. Total lacks of affection. Were silently abusive and broke me inside. Too many nights of my pillow wet with tears wondering what was wrong with me. I started to struggle with closeness and care form a friend at church. So many people seem to have a perfect...
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    My "Perfect Wife" had an affair.

    I think you are 100% right in saying that there is no such thing as perfect. I think were communication breaks down people become vulnerable. As a young man in church I was approached several times buy married women who who were talking as friends that were meeting in secret with me me. Recently...
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    Are churches dying?

    I would agree. Most in London are being sold. Converted to flats.