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You mean far more than she loves the idea of getting married? Is she one of those who is so into her faith she doesn't have time to be distracted by romance? No, because marriage is an institution of God. Marriage is not incompatible with faith in any way. The faith of a married person can be...

Hei STOP telling lies ! I never said Im perfect ! I want to change !!! I want to be more like Christ !!! Sure I have things to change !!!

False. I would most probably not know about her. Ok, I have stated Im not the best man. I have talked about the traits I liked in girls.

Of course, Im not saying she cant fail or be weak in faith sometimes. She is an human being more than anything (just like me) and I know it. What I want, is a girl who knows she is a sinner and knows God knows her better than herself, and who is capable of learning and understanding from her...

Ok, thank you for taking your time to listen me, or atleast try to. Even if this thread is already very long for me to remember everything I wrote, I definitely know I never posted "I want the perfect girl". And this is true. I cant ask a perfect girl when Im not perfect myself. So I will tell...

So you are ok with that. People are arguing with me just for wanting that.

Just tell me: Is wanting a Christian girlfriend really being greedy ?

But you probably dont struggle as much as me. You have even accepted it !

Please just tell me sincerely, whats even wrong with wanting a girlfriend ??? Like Im not asking anything of the other world. Im not asking to be the richest man in the world. Im not asking to be the strongest man in the world. Im not asking a trip to the Moon. Im not asking an olympic medal. Im...

I already done this part. I have waited 10 years !

Why ? Atleast I end the temptation.

Yes, I deadly wish to be more like Him !!!!

Because whenever I really want to release the bottle, I just break it.

Because I just cant stand loneliness ! Im allergic to loneliness !!! I need my reward for all the effort I have made in life to become a Christ following man !!! Singledom is not for me, NOT FOR ME !!! Not everyone can stand it you know ?

I dont want to seek help from outside for that. I will fight it myself with God, but with nobody else. Maybe this can imrpove my faith in God.

But I DEADLY want a girlfriend !!! I cant stand loneliness !!! Atleast not me. Its a constant fire on me. Its a chronic headache !!! Alcohol would kill me with 40 or earlier and if not alcohol, stress would do the work !!!

So you have turned an option into a duty. Friendly. What do you expect after 10 years of constant effort with NO reward at all ? Sorry but no. I cant accept it. Im allergic to loneliness. If I have no chance here I will not have chance anywhere in the world.

This way I would automatically die single because I would have to fix any trace of imperfection in myself which is itself impossible as I cant be perfect.

And if I cant simply find a marriage material girl no matter how I fix or try to fix myself ?

"If you want" is a clear statement of optionality. So no "homework" here...