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Ok, thanks.

Point 1 - Yes, I have heard this a couple of times. They say girls want guys who enjoy and have a rich life. They say "you must develop yourself and stand out in some area" they say "you must be brilliant and successful". Well, what if I dont stand out in anything ? What if Im not brilliant in...

Im 29. What do you mean with all this ? Have you read my post ?

I havent understood this. What do you mean ?

Its very much lust. But not just sexual lust. Its lust for many things. Lust for cuddling, lust for kissing, lust for touching a girls face, lust for listening her voice, lust for spending time with her, lust for praying with her, lust for reading the Bible with her, lust for eating something...

What ? Really ? Such a coincidence I mentioned France in previous posts... they have twice our church attendance rate

I use the word girl because I want to specifically denote women younger than me. And the word is beautiful.

But one depressed sinner cant spread it to a whole country. Look, I have accepted living in the very godless country that is Finland. What I want is a girl. A girl. And a family. I have realized I dont need an entire society to enjoy life. I just need a few people I can trust. And a girl of God...

Very few too. However it seems Christian girls are even fewer. I once found and talked with a 26 year old guy in a church. I also remember seeing a guy who looked to be in his early twenties. However I never found in my life a girl between the ages of 18-30 in church.

Forget to add many girls treat guys in a friendly and lovable way only to obtain a particular interest from them, not because they are good.

And what if all the girls I approach are not Christians ? Treating people in a friendly way doesnt mean one is a Christian.

But how Im supposed to find her ? How can I know shes a good Christian ? What if I later realize shes in a relationship ?

Sounds more improbable than probable. In the best of the cases I have an 1% chance of success. Or supposing I find one, what if shes in a relationship ? This is very likely since there are more Christian guys than girls here.

Heh but is even trickier to meet one of them. Where could I find such girl if not in church ? And remember we have to exclude all the fakes found among them, which are plenty. Sure there are some fakes who are churchgoers, but are more common in those who dont. And also depends on age. If I...

What ? So shes older than me. Im 29. I have looked for years and failed all the time. I finally gave up when I was 28, but may consider resuming now.

The proportion of churchgoing Christians in Finland overall is 9%. Quite low even for an European country. In France its 18%.

Surprising. Im a native Finnish and never knew any. I believe you but its strange. How old she is ? Where does she live ? How did you knew her ? Not because I want to date her or anything. I dont want to date online.

What option ? Searching outside ? Where ? There are so maaany places in the world and Im not willing to go to most of these.

And what then ? What then ? What I do with my life then ?

But in Finland it is worse than in other countries. I once heard Finland had the widest age gap on religiosity out of all European countries. Finland has the lowest church attendance rate in the continent as well. France and UK doubles our attendance rate and Germany nearly triplies it. Even...