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Okay, dang. I'm so sorry. It's no wonder you haven't "got over it". He has offered no acknowledgement of his wrong doing in the matter, and that's the very beginning of making things right. It's a step that can't be skipped. It also isn't a very good evidence that he is in fact saved. When we...

...to this for you and your family but, hopefully, a separation (if that is what the Lord is leading you to do now) may help him realize why the porn he is addicted to needs to go. I haven't had any experience with family members addicted to porn, but I've had/have alcohol and drug addicts, and...

...& believe, don't for 1 moment let you belief stray. 6. sometimes a trusted friend can render proper advice. almost always, if a guy is viewing porn, there's something he's not happy about concerning the relationship. of the fine personal details of romance, see if you were denying him...

My husband was dismissive saying that it did not have anything to do with our marriage. He treated me with contempt and still does when I bring up the subject. I do not think he is sincerely sorry and does not show any empathy for me. I do not think he is capable of feeling empathy for how...

When I first confronted him, he become vile and angry. He blamed me saying that he used porn when he was upset with me, but later he admitted that he used porn when he got these urges.

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He and I owned a business together and worked together. We sold the business 3 years ago and that is when I found the porn on his work computer. When I confronted him, he blamed me and I saw a side of him I never knew existed. He was vile! I believe he is still watching inappropriate videos...

Thanks for the insight given you to share here, woe is me. How could he have had inter-coarse with all those women Wow, it is not porn as might be most imagine. Wisdom is what Solomon got given, wow! They must all have sought that out after he said cut the baby in half, as then the real mom...

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. A good place to get some help is a woman named Leslie Vernick. She has a great website full of great help and information for your situation. You can listen to her podcasts as well. She will help you determine what to do next in your marriage from a Godly...

Others have given you good advice. Having been through a divorce (not my choice, and neither porn nor infidelity were factors) and counseling, I can offer some perspective. Firstly, you have justification to separate (you'll have to decide prayerfully for yourself whether you have a mandate to...

...VictorianJesus, I am going to give you a different perspective. My marriage is ending right now, and a big contributing factor is that I used porn for the whole 22 year marriage (I’m 58). I kept this hidden until I felt compelled to confess it in marriage counseling. That was over a year...

Hello VictorianJesus, I'm VERY sorry to hear this, so please know that I will be praying for you (and I'm sure that others here will be too). What @MsMediator just mentioned I will echo, that it's best to bring this to your pastor's attention, ASAP. You can do so with your husband, or you can...

Do both/either of you go to church? If so, it is best to bring this topic to the pastor. If not, a Christian counselor. No one can tell you what to do. If you decide to stay with him, just know that no one is not worth your joy. You should pray for him but know that he is accountable for...

There are a myriad of reasons why guys view porn. None of them any good. And I get why you are hurting. And you have some choices to make. So does he. By your acceptance and continuing to stay with him you are tacitly endorsing him viewing porn. The kids? They know. Kids are...

...for you and your family. You said that your family is crumbling. Does this mean that your children are aware of your husband's problem with porn? You also said that you are not healing after 3 years, so is it safe to assume that you learned of your husband's problem with porn 3 years ago? Is...

I am sorry to hear this. I am not sure as to what advice to give you at the moment, but I am praying for you.

My family is crumbling and so am I. My husband and I have been married for 34 years and I discovered that he was using porn for the entire marriage. I am not healing after 3 years. I am an emotional wreck and my husband refuses to help me heal. I have stayed for the kids but I can’t take the...

I am glad you think Christians should be involved in politics. Do you agree that the Kingdom of God (KOG) should be salt and light in all aspects of life including government? Do you perceive that the MAGA movement is transforming the Pub party?