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    Of Mice, Moles, and Men (Ladies Too!) Tell Us About YOUR Animal Encounters -- Pets, Pests, And Everything In-Between!

    There are some good stories and bad ones. I'm going to share the good ones. The bad ones even I am trying to forget because I am ashamed of it maybe? It was not entirely my fault but I could have done better. There was this time when a squirrel visited our home. It fell into the western...
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    What is the Definition of Failure?

    Hey Seoulsearch, Back with another conversation of life are we? I will join. That young man or middle aged adult is looking at his life half way through and admitting defeat. It's not a failure from where I am standing. From where I am standing, I see a man who tried again and again and...
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    What Are Your Biggest "Buying Regrets" -- Things You Bought That You Wish You Wouldn't Have?

    I got to meet a lot of different people in college. I grew up in a collage. Where there is a lack of good parenting, college would impart to you values through education, friendship and peers. I was blessed to learn a lot being among a college society. I would not be who I am today if not for my...
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    What Are Your Biggest "Buying Regrets" -- Things You Bought That You Wish You Wouldn't Have?

    I am not a big spender. I have spent a lot for myself as an athlete for my training. That is important. Other than this, I hardly spend anything. Of course, there are some buying regrets with certain items. If you travel by train in India, just be wary of what you purchase. Eg: I bought honey...
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    About men stealing women!

    In a disproportionate population, where there are more men than women. What choice do men have when they have no women? They look to women who are available to them and take them, right? That's rationally speaking. Personally I wouldn't do it. I would empathise with the man to whom she belongs...
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    What Would You Find If You Cleaned the Darkest Realms of Your Car, Couch, or Closets?

    Old drawings and sketches. Old school books and texts. Dusty books.
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    What are you listening to?

    This is the song from the video. It is a good song @ATSTD hope you enjoy!
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    What are you listening to?

    Nice to hear a man lead his kids by example. I admire you Sir. Even if you don't have kids, that's still a lot of dedication. I appreciate you
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    What are you listening to?

    One of my favourite songs with the passion of the Christ movie as footage. You have to sign in to watch. Age Restricted. God bless
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    Help please.

    It's ok. Welcome to the beginning of your life. You do realise that love cannot be forced don't you. Just keep trying. It is not the end of the world. The first few times of heartbreak is hard. You will get used to it. If that person was meant for you, God will unite you with him. If it is not...
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    What Days Are You Most Likely to Post/Catch Up With CC?

    I come here when i get the time. Just to spend time with people with matters related to faith and life. Keep it easy. I try to be here when I can. That's what a community is about. But life is usually busy for me.
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    Keeping The Kids Accountable

    Just be there for them. Be available to spend at least half an hour a day just to talk to them about their school life and their day to day activities. Help them understand life. Support their interests. Teach them right from wrong. Reward them for what they do right and punish them if they do...
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    It's Time For Another Be-Loo-Tiful Discussion! How Often Do YOU Clean the Bathroom?

    I flush the toilet after use of course :) I have yet to help out on cleaning at home. Thanks for reminding me. My current job is such that I attend nature's call wherever I go. Toilet. Out in the open. Such is the nature of my job. Excuse me for my honesty. I'm in a rush all the time. So when...
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    Nothing but questions.

    If i don't ask no questions, I don't get no lies. Who else but education helps build the wall with all the bricks on them? Do we need such education for kids in general?
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    interfaith marriage

    On reading the other replies, I gather it must be hard for you. Have you considered separation from him? Better to live your life away from such a man that beats and physically abuses his wife than with him and the kids. Him mistreating you would have a lasting effect on the kids. Separate and...
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    interfaith marriage

    God accepts us exactly the way we are. He is your spouse. So what if he believes differently from you. You are called by God to accept him as he is and love him. Don't let your faith in God stop you from accepting and loving him as he is. Respect what he believes in and give him space. You be...
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    Crumbling marriage

    You must realise that we as men don't and can't always be honest emotionally with women. I'll tell you a little about me. I wanted to marry being a virgin. My mother taught me that. We are all taught things in our lives and we try to live up to them. And we fail. I am neither married nor am I a...
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    Crumbling marriage

    Yes, I am a man. I never said that it wasn't hurtful for the woman. Please read what I shared carefully. There are far worse hurts than that. Both men and women are capable of the same things. It is awful to be betrayed. I just tried to help as best I could according to my life experiences. I am...
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    What are you listening to?

    It's a beautiful song, I love the lyrics too :)