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    Hey, I'm Christian and Canadian ... 28F

    Hello Golden23 how are you? are you a new member too, any fun facts about you? lol i like ice breakers
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    Thank you. You and others have helped me realize that. Love this forum
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    Peace unto you.

    Welcome! Cant wait to learn more :)
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    People I would like to meet

    I will go with my gut, I would love to meet dick van dyke he is still alive and well. for a deceased person ... i think King David He has an open heart and I would love some of his insights
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    Yes some are for the talents God has given me others are more practical but based on Gods command, for how to handle money, carrying ourselves spiritually etc.... I think i will always have more to learn though. Thanks for the verses too. And yes you are right. I do have a career path i would...
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    Quality of Faith

    Thank you this helped a lot actually. I think this is good insight especially being tested not automatically to prove and perform.
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    Yes I actually have followed a woman named Bindi Marc, she is a great christian woman, when I think of my own salary and how I finance my money and prepare myself (I don't think we ever stop learning) I have always had an issue with the worldly standards of men being providers. I know that men...
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    you are making a lot of assumptions. and I am sorry I will not be answering your questions
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    Yes I will, I was just asking the question as a general curiosity, I will not be looking for any relationships for a while lol I am still respecting my vows. thank you btw I do appreciate your response and advice and agree with it 100%
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    okay wow first of all, I am not planning on going into a relationship "off the bat" I a was just asking about something I have been meditating on for a while and wanted advice from a Godly perspective. 2) I have thought of these things before that is why I said I think you are over the line...
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    I have tried everything to keep the marriage becuase of my values, he is leaving anyway. he has cheated on me multiple times, has denounced his faith, financial abuse, also became reporbate decided he is a cross dresser, then gay and now transgender. I am still trying to change his mind and he...
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    respectfully, I think you may be overstepping with your assumptions. I am asking about a specific insecurity as I am forced to start my life over from scratch. I am not looking for a boogie house or a dictatorship of just what I want in a marriage or else it won't work. Thank you for your...
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    That would be a dream too XD My struggle is just being enough for my husband, like children it is something that I desire but I also view this as a godly covenant bound by God an dprovided by God. I really do see it as an honor, and becuase of that I tend to over think and accuse myself of not...
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    Red flags men see in women (low salary?)

    like i said I wouldn't care, it is about me and my position that i struggle with. edit: I know I am being hypocritical with me at the short end of the stick. I have gotten some good opinions though that have helped with my overthinking.
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    Quality of Faith

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    Quality of Faith

    Okay I see the missunderstanding lol, yeah my question is not about my salvation, it's about how can I know I am serving God to the best of my abilities lol, thank you for the clarification though :) I dfinitely understand how that could be an issue.
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    Quality of Faith

    I do look at Him, but that is how I see myself. I see how he has changed me. I don't think I can earn my salvation through works or legalism. But I do think like the lord said look at the log in our own eye before taking the speck out of someone elses, we need to be self aware with humility to...
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    Quality of Faith

    That is true too, i guess for me my issue is that I see where i fail and ai see where i have imporved but i also know i will never need to stop improving and that frightens me at times.