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    Welcome to the Official CC Valentine's B.Y.O.V. Thread! (B.e Y.our O.wn V.alentine!!)

    Hi Everyone! This thread is dedicated to the lovely @Poinsetta, who specifically suggested this topic. To be honest, I hadn't even thought about Valentine's Day coming up (that's how hopeful I am about the future :ROFL:) but am glad she suggested this because as I started to pray for ideas, I...
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    Come One, Come All... It's Time for An Official CC Roll Call!!

    Hey Everyone, We do these types of threads now and then, and we are long overdue for one that includes current members. As the title implies, it's time for an infamous CC Roll Call! But, we like to give it a little twist. :D Come join the fun!! Let us know not only that you're here, but also...
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    What is the Difference Between "Standards" and "Shallowness"?

    Hey Everyone, I was thinking about some issues that have come up in the threads about what singles want in a potential spouse. I was also thinking of my grandparents, who were married for 64 years (until her death,) and how much different things were then. They knew each other all their...
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    How Often Does a Woman Expect a Man with a "Good Salary" to Actually Be Home?

    Hey Everyone, With an interesting conversation going on in another thread about women who want men to earn certain salaries (which is a common topic in singles communities,) I've always wondered why the other side of the coin is never discussed. I never hear people talking about what it takes...
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    Fill in the Blank: "Without Coffee (or My Beverage/Routine of Choice,) I Am __________________________________."

    Hey Everybody, If you don't have your morning coffee, beverage, or routine/ritual of choice, how would you best describe yourself? Feel free to use words, pictures, gifs, memes, and anything else to describe your "Before I've Had My Daily Tonic" state. Here are a few suggestions...
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    H-H-How Much C-C-Coffee Have You Had This Morning?

    Hey Everyone, We all know that coffee is an almost essential part of most people's morning routines. But with lawsuits being filed over things like energy drinks and Panera Bread's "Supercharged Lemonade," I'd like to start a conversation about caffeine in general, no matter how people...
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    What Does It Mean Today When Someone Says, "I Want to Make Friends"?

    Hey Everyone, We see posts every day saying, "I'm here to make friends!" Of course, this is wonderful and something I'm sure we almost all came here for. But what does "friendship" really mean today, and how has it changed over time? Does being "friends" mean you're on someone's personal...
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    Do You As a Single Person Feel More Pressure to Get (or Stay) In Shape?

    Hey Everyone, If you're part of the Singles community, whether Christian or not, we all know that at some point, our looks (and weight) are going to be a major consideration. No matter how Christian someone claims to be, looks, to some degree, matter, unless the person is blind. (And even then...
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    How is Everyone Holding Up in the Winter Weather?

    Hey Everyone, Here in the USA, winter storm warnings are raging across the country. Blizzards and freezing temperatures are sweeping across many states. In my own area, we had a power outage last week, but fortunately it only lasted a few hours. (Many thanks to @Talljake and everyone else out...
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    When an 80-Year-Old Man Dies and Leaves Behind His 60-Year-Old Wife, Who Will Take Care of Her?

    In most every situation I encounter (churches, Christian dating sites, forums, etc.) it seems to be a given that older men, Christian or not, almost unanimously want a much-younger woman. This post seems to tally up the vast majority of reasons: Please note that I DON'T want this thread to...
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    How Would YOU Handle Being Unequally YOLKED?

    Picture the scene: You're sitting down to a beautiful table setting, just about ready to enjoy your classically cooked ham and cheese omelet, and it's looking something like this: But as you begin to sliced into that folded half moon of fluffy goodness, the person across from you is digging...
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    Can We All Find our Soulmate Somewhere In Between Dodging Zombies at Halloween and Fruitcake at Christmas?

    Hey Everyone, For those of you who've been around the forum for a while, you'll know that just about every year, we get threads asking whether it's evil to celebrate Halloween and Christmas. We hadn't seen any yet this year, but fortunately, someone was kind enough to dig up an old thread...
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    All Welcome Mingle #9: Pumpkin Spices and Autumn Vices.

    Hey Everyone, For a few years, I lived in places where the seasons didn't change, and the years felt like they were going by in one long stretch of time. Although the locations were lovely, something about the fact that the trees never changed color just didn't feel right! Growing up in the...
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    Mingle for All #8 -- Are You an Early Bird, a Night Owl, or Permanently Exhausted Pigeon?

    Hey Everyone, I borrowed the term "Permanently Exhausted Pigeon" from a recent Ted-Ed video about people's natural sleep/wake cycles. I am interested in hearing how people would classify themselves: Early Bird, Night Owl, or Something in Between, and how it has affected your life. I have...
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    All Are Welcome Mingle #7: What Are Some Recent Spiritual Sermons/Lessons/Stories that Have Touched Your Heart?

    Hey Everyone, I subscribe to a daily devotional, and a particular news story it mentioned really tangled up my heartstrings: "Just before Easter 2018, a terrorist entered a market, killing two people and taking a third woman hostage. When efforts to free the woman failed, a policeman made...
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    All Are Welcome Mingle #6: Exotic Foods and How to Handle Them?

    Hey Everyone, Just a note on the title -- I was trying to do a parody of "Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them," but alas. :LOL: Anyway... All the talk about meatloaf in Mingle #5 got me thinking about how much foods differ among cultures, and how we react to unfamiliar foods. As pointed...
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    Everyone Welcome Mingle #5: Sign Up Now to Join the Official Meatloaf Hater's Club!

    Hey Everyone! We're back in business! :) In Mingle Threads #3 and #4, we came up with a whole bunch of ideas of what to trade @Talljake for his Granny's baked goods... Which inevitably led to this conversation: Now it's a not-so-well guarded secret that meatloaf has long been one of THE...
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    All-Are-Welcome Mingle #4 -- I Need Help Swindling, I Mean Trading, a CC Member for His Grandma's Baked Goods!

    Hey Everyone, Let's go on a secret mission! I'll take a break soon so people can catch up with other threads, but I had to post this one while the idea was still fresh! :) Jacob graciously gave his permission to allow me to use his stories as a target, er, I mean, topic, so here we go! In a...
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    Welcome Everyone to the SF Mighty Mingle Part 3! Let's Talk about Coffee, Cat Cafes, and Greed! :D

    Hey Everyone, Welcome to Part 3 of our Singles Forum Mighty Mingle! We have a lot of married friends here, so EVERYONE is welcome to join this thread!!! My goal in making this a series (like a favorite TV show) instead of stand-alone threads is that I'm hoping to build community. I don't want...
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    It's the SF Mighty Mingle, Part 2! All Are Welcome! A Poll-arizing Poll: Popular Holiday Flavors - Choose Wisely!

    Hey Everyone, I have an idea for a more involved thread in this series, but won't have time to work on it tomorrow so maybe we can try this instead. It's that time of year again, and I'm just now starting to see ads for baking holiday treats. I just know this discussion is going to rock...