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  1. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    I never said that God wasn’t on my side. But exactly where has God been when I needed him? Look, maybe you all just don’t understand me 😭 I don’t need to be picked on like this- I really don’t - it might send me over the edge😭
  2. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    I won’t be dumping him again. I love him & he loves me. I realise this now after seeing him again after the other night. I want to be with him. I can work everything out on my own now. I don’t need anyone’s help. And I do, by the way see a psychiatrist & a psychologist regarding my depression.
  3. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    I’m thinking that I might leave this site. While I do appreciate everyone’s advice, I’m finding it overwhelming & to be honest, I’m feeling a bit suicidal. I’ll be ok, I think I might have given the wrong idea about him & myself. I feel like a bad person. Some people here have made me feel bad...
  4. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    Miri- I know I have been the one to keep dumping him- but pls understand it’s not because I’m mean or a bitch- it’s because I’m insecure & I’m scared he’s going to dump me, so I dump him first. I think I’m not worthy of being loved. I don’t feel worthy of love. I feel like a loser & hopeless...
  5. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    Hmm maybe but he’s not really a sex maniac- There were often times I would spend a whole weekend at his house & we didn’t have sex. He said tonight, he would be happy to lie in bed & just kiss & cuddle. Whether he means that or not, I Don’t know.
  6. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    You are right- I guess I’ve had depression for such a long time now ( for about 20 years), that I’m so used to it that’s it part of me. I’m not sure if it will ever go away completely. It does effect how I view things & my personal relationships. Tonight was ok... he got in a bit of a bad mood...
  7. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    Thanks everyone for your advice. I’m seeing him tonight & I’lol see how things go. I will probably end the relationship. What about if I tell him I’d just like to be friends? Or is it better to make a complete break? I just feel sad to let go of him completely after 18 months 😔
  8. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    He seems to take things I say the wrong way, so maybe he is overly sensitive too. He basically said ( this was in a middle of a verbal disagrrement), that he “felt like kicking me out & throwing my bag outside”. I was “driving him crazy”. When I told him this greatly upset me, he said he only...
  9. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    thanks for replying to me. I did forget to mention his good points: he has a good sense of humour, when things are going well we get along well. It wasn’t all ‘bad’. My psychologist says I am overly sensitive, so perhaps I’m being too sensitive about what he said to me. But he does seem to have...
  10. GeneousGiselle

    Am I Hot, or Not?

    Ha! Very funny!
  11. GeneousGiselle

    Relationship help!!

    Hi, I’m new here. I’m 46 & from Melbourne, Australia. My problem is that I have been in a tumoultous relationship for about 18 months now. I have broken up with him several times. I haven’t seen him since May, partly due to breaking up & partly due to the fact that I have been quite ill. We are...
  12. GeneousGiselle

    How Often Do You Give/Receive Hugs?

    Hi I’m new here & I feel like I need a hug right now.
  13. GeneousGiselle

    I don't really like girls who wear makeup. (mascara, eye shadow, foundation, gloss)

    I dom’t Wear much make-up but I guess famous people in the spotlight do have a lot of pressure & am expectation on them to wear make-up. It’s part of who they are almost. Part of their image.