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Hi Live4him I'm glad to hear you are well. God is truly always there for us, even when it seem everything else against us. That is actually a very good analogy, I like that alot. I'm going to save that to my notes. Thankyou very much for your prayers, and thankyou for taking the time to advise...

Hi inukubo, I hope you are well. Several things that you mentioned match my wife exactly: "unrealistic unspoken rules which were always changing and, if I happened to accidentally break any of them, outrageous angry outbursts;" "extreme inability to see other points of view or acknowledge when...

I guess I need to somehow have that same level of patience too, but that's really not easy sometimes, especially last night, I left the message screenshots below. You're right, she doesn't want to feel this way, that can be seen in her final message (the really long message in the screenshots)...

Hi Live4him, I hope things on your life are looking up now, 18 years is a long time to live like that, and I hope all is well. The spiritual growth and light at the end is a testimony that even in the darkness, He is always there. However you ended up here, I welcome you and thank you for...

Hi corrective lens, I hope you are well. I'd be happy to answer them. 1- Not sure if you refer to in person or online so I'll answer both. Online - She added my friend, and my friend told me to add her, and so I did. This was 2015, we talked as good friends until 2017 when we became bf and gf...

Hello again Kaylagrl, I'm happy to hear you are well, thanks again for your reply. Thankyou very much for sharing your story with me. It seems you have a kind and loving husband which I am happy to hear. I've never really thought about it like that, but as you mentioned, the sense of control...

I'm really sorry again for my late replies. God bless you all and thankyou all very much for taking the time to reply. I really appreciate it. ♥️

Hi Blackpowderduelist, I hope you are well. I've known her since 2015, we became bf and gf in 2017, engaged in 2018, and married in 2020. I live in the UK and am a British citizen. She lives in the Philippines and is filipina. We are working on getting her spouse visa sorted, she should be here...

Hi scribe, I hope you are well. Thankyou for sharing your story with me. I'm really sorry you had to go through all of that, I hope that the place you are in your life now has the joy that you deserve 🙏 The point you make about expectations she has said to be recently. Before she considered me...

Hi Kaylagrl, I hope you are well. Her family are born again Christians, she is the most active among them. She's always involved in bible studies and often goes out of her way to talk to strangers about God, she's getting more involved in her ministry, and she joins me and my family doing bible...

Hi Angela, thankyou for your message. I'm not really familiar with any of these disorders, thankyou for naming them, I'll do some research on them after I've finished replying. She says sometimes she feels something very dark around her in certain places. Just yesterday after her rage filled...

Hi Lanolin, thankyou for your message, we call on WhatsApp and message on WhatsApp, sometimes Facebook. I will leave some examples below. I agree with that point, she's said as much herself, about feeling depressed about being alone when I'm on my 4 on shifts cos it's hard to talk much then. The...

Hi Kireina, I hope you are well? The sit down you suggested we've had many times and what usually happens is, everything will appear to improve, only for us to be having the same conversation again the following week. Some things I'm asked to do would avoid the conflicts, but it goes against...

Hi Runningman, thank you for your message, I hope you are well. yes it is our first serious relationship and I agree the distance is part of it, when we are together in person it's never like this. So my hope is, as you say, that it will be resolved when we are actually together. I will have a...

Hi everyone, thankyou very much for all your replies. Sorry I haven't got back to you yet, I work 4 on 4 off, 12 hour shifts. Going to reply shortly. God bless

Hi everyone, I have no idea if I'm posting this in the right place, so I apologise if I am not. Anyway, I feel like my wife has very little respect for me sometimes (alot of the time), and she seems to be hostile towards me far more than I'd consider normal or healthy. Things are getting worse...