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Catlynn
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You need to stop dating mean women
Or knowing them at all. They do sound mean.
1. Men need to feel respected
2. They almost always mean everything that they say but we don't believe them because, as a pp said, nothing we say can be taken at face value.
lol 3. They love the chase....in everything. They love the need to pursue something and the challenge that they must rise to in order to get it. (Such as a job, a position, a woman or a trophy...)
4. They feel just as deeply as we do, they just don't show it in the same ways.
5. Despite the notion that all men want is sex, most men that I know look so much deeper than that and care so much more about who a woman is. (and who she serves)
6. We rob them of the joy and blessing that comes out of their chivalry and giving hearts when we deny them and want to do it all ourselves.
7. Big dogs, not small yappy type dogs, are preferred.
8. A man with a heart after God and a life that shows it, is the most attractive guy in the world.
9................I can't think of any more.....I'll come back and edit later.
haha
So Kooper is the only guy in here who has learned anything from women???
GO KOOPER!
There are some threads that I know its best to stay out of
Hehe. I'm not one of those who deny it. I'm happy that my hair that still sits on neat still has kept its color well. Losing hair IS a big deal. Yeah? Could you ever imagine? No, since this is what you learned from the opposite sex alright. Sure enough, most women doesn't have that issue. But some actually do. You can try ask them if they think it's a big deal or not.
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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Matthew your list was awesome!
1.Men never remember what you tell them while there watching the game, so the best time to break bad news is while hes watching sports. So when he finds out later technically he cant get mad you wrecked his car, cause you told him..However you can get mad because he just NEVER LISTENS TO YOU!!!!! and the ONLY THING HE CARES ABOUT IS SPOOORTS!!!!
2. Men are not good liars, we will always find out.
3. Normally when a guy says he's not thinking anything, 99 percent of the time theres really nothin goin on up there.
4. Your butt really does look big in those jeans, he just doesnt wanna deal with the repurcussions of telling you.
1.Men never remember what you tell them while there watching the game, so the best time to break bad news is while hes watching sports. So when he finds out later technically he cant get mad you wrecked his car, cause you told him..However you can get mad because he just NEVER LISTENS TO YOU!!!!! and the ONLY THING HE CARES ABOUT IS SPOOORTS!!!!
2. Men are not good liars, we will always find out.
3. Normally when a guy says he's not thinking anything, 99 percent of the time theres really nothin goin on up there.
4. Your butt really does look big in those jeans, he just doesnt wanna deal with the repurcussions of telling you.
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Jullianna
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Or knowing them at all. They do sound mean.
1. Men need to feel respected
2. They almost always mean everything that they say but we don't believe them because, as a pp said, nothing we say can be taken at face value.
3. They love the chase....in everything. They love the need to pursue something and the challenge that they must rise to in order to get it. (Such as a job, a position, a woman or a trophy...)
4. They feel just as deeply as we do, they just don't show it in the same ways.
5. Despite the notion that all men want is sex, most men that I know look so much deeper than that and care so much more about who a woman is. (and who she serves)
6. We rob them of the joy and blessing that comes out of their chivalry and giving hearts when we deny them and want to do it all ourselves.
7. Big dogs, not small yappy type dogs, are preferred.
8. A man with a heart after God and a life that shows it, is the most attractive guy in the world.
9................I can't think of any more.....I'll come back and edit later.
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your list
Absolutely true!
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Jullianna
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I can imagine that it would be very difficult for anyone. I've even donated hair in the past to make wigs for children with cancer.
I do think it's awesome though when a guy embraces it. I'm sure a lot of the ladies will agree with me when I say that baldness can be very attractive, especially if the guy has a tan too, right ladies?
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Matthew
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You need to stop dating mean women
So I should stop dating altogether then?
Joke, joke.....please don't poke me in the eyes.
Or knowing them at all. They do sound mean.
1. Men need to feel respected
2. They almost always mean everything that they say but we don't believe them because, as a pp said, nothing we say can be taken at face value.
3. They love the chase....in everything. They love the need to pursue something and the challenge that they must rise to in order to get it. (Such as a job, a position, a woman or a trophy...)
4. They feel just as deeply as we do, they just don't show it in the same ways.
5. Despite the notion that all men want is sex, most men that I know look so much deeper than that and care so much more about who a woman is. (and who she serves)
6. We rob them of the joy and blessing that comes out of their chivalry and giving hearts when we deny them and want to do it all ourselves.
7. Big dogs, not small yappy type dogs, are preferred.
8. A man with a heart after God and a life that shows it, is the most attractive guy in the world.
9................I can't think of any more.....I'll come back and edit later.
1. Yes.
2. I typically half-joke, but yes.
3. I tried to refute this, but it is true. There are different ways of conquering. I prefer gradual empire building. Hail Caesar!
4. *Runtime Error* Windows is shutting down.
5. THANK YOU, CATLYNN! (I normally abhor the use of all caps, but that comment deserved it)
6. I've always preferred an Aristotelian balance when it comes to the concept of chivalry (the great sorellian myth among conservatives). Without splitting hairs, your comment is accurate.
7. Cat men do exist.
8. That is something I cannot verify as I do not find men attractive.
9. Your list didn't need any sort of improvement.
I couldn't resist pulling a Julianna.
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Relena7
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I couldn't resist pulling a Julianna.
Oh my, I wonder how many more people will soon be pulling their own jullianna(s).
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Relena7
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Guys can be really sweet, cuddly, romantic, friendly, hilarious, say-it-like-it-is, to-the-point, no sugar coating, protective, problem-solving, watchful, action-y, cute, geeky, honest, calming you down when you freak over something silly.
They can also be dismissive, frustrating, dense, stubborn, egotistical, tunnel-visioned, unintentionally insulting, aggressive, dishonest, etc.
No two guys are alike. The men in my life (dad, brother, boyfriend) have mostly the positive traits listed. (Though my bro can get on my nerves sometimes, I know he means well
). I prefer to surround myself with loving people who make me feel good. Most of the negative things I listed are things I hear from other people. I know that not all guys are bad. And I know that both genders have their own dark side.
protective, problem-solving, watchful, action-y, cute, geeky, honest, calming you down when you freak over something silly. They can also be dismissive, frustrating, dense, stubborn, egotistical, tunnel-visioned, unintentionally insulting, aggressive, dishonest, etc.
No two guys are alike. The men in my life (dad, brother, boyfriend) have mostly the positive traits listed. (Though my bro can get on my nerves sometimes, I know he means well
). I prefer to surround myself with loving people who make me feel good. Most of the negative things I listed are things I hear from other people. I know that not all guys are bad. And I know that both genders have their own dark side.
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GreenNnice
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1. They make me laugh, differently than that of a guy making me laugh.
2. No guys I've ever got tingly feelings around. The same cannot be said of my feelings around women.
3 They listen to what I say intently, but I often don't return the same reciprocity.
4. Girls are attached to the emotional of sports or the physical, score is immaterial.
5. They do things that guys don't do, like showing sympathy that is more feeling like empathy though they have not actually been through what I've been through.
6. They seem like they are always on the move, going somewhere, doing some thing, with someone.
7. Girls almost always have a boyfriend in their life, whether he is good for them or not is immaterial to them. The boy is a blanket , much like Linus carries around. (Here I hope you pray for blood of Christ protection, ladies )
8. Girls just want to have fun, it doesn't matter so much where they go as who they are going there with.
9. Girls get tired easy. They want to conquer the gamut of rides at the fair, but run out of steam long before me.
10. Girls understand responsibility. Before wanting go do, do, do things they first want to make sure everything (laundry, clean place, hair, face, etc) else is completed.
2. No guys I've ever got tingly feelings around. The same cannot be said of my feelings around women.
3 They listen to what I say intently, but I often don't return the same reciprocity.
4. Girls are attached to the emotional of sports or the physical, score is immaterial.
5. They do things that guys don't do, like showing sympathy that is more feeling like empathy though they have not actually been through what I've been through.
6. They seem like they are always on the move, going somewhere, doing some thing, with someone.
7. Girls almost always have a boyfriend in their life, whether he is good for them or not is immaterial to them. The boy is a blanket , much like Linus carries around. (Here I hope you pray for blood of Christ protection, ladies
) 8. Girls just want to have fun, it doesn't matter so much where they go as who they are going there with.
9. Girls get tired easy. They want to conquer the gamut of rides at the fair, but run out of steam long before me.
10. Girls understand responsibility. Before wanting go do, do, do things they first want to make sure everything (laundry, clean place, hair, face, etc) else is completed.
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Siberian_Khatru
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Sooner28
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LOL this is great!!!!!!1. they think the bathroom is a library
2. underwear is a perfectly acceptable form of clothing for retrieving the newspaper
3. they tell you it's okay to ask questions about their favorite sport, but you must never ask during the actual event. all questions must be saved until after the event.
4. matching socks are optional
5. if a color wasn't included in their kindergarten crayon box, it doesn't exist
6. they can primp just as long as we can
7. no matter how much they deny it, losing their hair IS a big deal to them so be nice
8. when they run in front of you in the outfield to catch the ball, it's not always because they think you can't catch it. sometimes they are just trying to impress you so don't punch them
9. when they see a woman crying, they will look at one another hoping one of them knows how to fix it
10. sorting laundry is far more complex to them than rocket science
have fun
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imperfection
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1. They get easily distracted.
2. If a guy stops playing his game/whatch his football game/stops his movie for you.......Marry him.
3. Food is an important part of his life.
4. He always looks for a solution, while she just wants to talk about a problem.
5. When she accuses him of things that happend in the past he is overwhelmed cause often he has a different memory of whatever happened.
6. When she is clingy she robs him of the opportunity to be attentive and creative and YES, also romantic.
7. No one can cook better than his mum.
8. When she nags him all the time, he feels like a stupid little child....explains why he reacts like a little child.
9. Being successful in his jobs, or in whatever he does is really really important for him.
10. If she treat him like a king, he will treat her like a queen.
2. If a guy stops playing his game/whatch his football game/stops his movie for you.......Marry him.
3. Food is an important part of his life.
4. He always looks for a solution, while she just wants to talk about a problem.
5. When she accuses him of things that happend in the past he is overwhelmed cause often he has a different memory of whatever happened.
6. When she is clingy she robs him of the opportunity to be attentive and creative and YES, also romantic.
7. No one can cook better than his mum.
8. When she nags him all the time, he feels like a stupid little child....explains why he reacts like a little child.
9. Being successful in his jobs, or in whatever he does is really really important for him.
10. If she treat him like a king, he will treat her like a queen.
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