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jimmy1985

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This pain is crippling.
I feel sick.
I think I might just drink until I pass out tonight. No other way to temporarily ease the pain.
 
drinking yourself into oblivion isn't the answer.....but then you know that. you haven't said what the pain is being caused by but based on your 'solution' to the problem i think it is fairly safe to say that drinking itself is the problem or at the least a contributing factor..................Proverbs 23:29-35 who has woe? who has sorrow?who has strife? who has complaints? who has needless bruises? who has bloodshot eyes?..........
 
Praying for you. The Lord is your Sheppard and can carry you through. Read the Book of Job... a man who lost everything a man can lose. God is faithful, he's your Sheppard who won't leave you alone. He'll leave the 99 to come and find you.
 
From reading your posts it sounds like you've lost a partner. I'm sorry you're going through this pain. One thing to remember is that thanks to God, this doesn't have to be permanent. Through the offering of His perfect son He has given us all a place in His Kingdom- where we will be re-united with lost loved ones..

"Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,” for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea.I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband.And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God.‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” Revelation 21


Thanks be to God, who has provided hope and future for us, an eternal future to live under Him as His people, together with our loved ones forever.

Hold fast to God in your hour of need. Praying for you, brother in Christ.
 
Whatever your going through and whatever the pain is that comes from the situation, remember...All things are possible with God.

He loves you so. God Bless
 
So sorry for the pain you're feeling! I hear you when you talk about how you want to handle it. I might kick up some dust here, but I don't completely disagree with this method. It's certainly not a permanent solution to pain, but alcohol can be a blessing that can lift some pretty hefty weights when pain is fresh. I know this from experience, but you're still gonna have to pick up the pieces when you're sober. Spend time in prayer and in the word, and there will be immense comfort in that. Blessings to you! Take care. :)
 
First of all-I'm sorry to hear that you feel yourself like that. But I just want you to say-you should-accept the pain (grief, sadness, anger-whatever it may be). That feeling is an essential part of the healing process. It takes time to heal the wounds-emotional or physical. But with God all things are possible.

I pray that your heart and mind might find comfort and peace in Jesus Christ name.