17 years old. Already graduated. Looking for a long-term relationship

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lovingmygod10

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Hey yall I'm Julie. Im from Tennessee. I love my God and I am currently single. Im looking for someone who is 20 years or younger. Ive been hurt a lot and Ive been abused so Im careful about who I talk to. Try talkin to me. :)
 
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lightbliss

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Yeah, this forum is not for "advertising" and you're supposed to be 18+ for (general) posting.
 
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lovingmygod10

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well i feel welcome now. thanks for the advice but its not needed. if it was supposed to be for adults it wouldnt have let me post
 
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lightbliss

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Sorry, welcome to CC.

You are allowed to post but like the Teens Forum is for "just" teens, this forum is for those 18+, to discuss being single adults and whatnot.

10. Please do not hang out where you do not belong.

Please do not use the Teens chat room unless you are between 13 and 19 years old. And please do not use the Singles chat room unless you are single and 18 or older. (The other chat rooms are for general fellowship and are open to all.)

Rules - Christian Chat Rooms & Forums

I've read your other posts about being single and heartbroken, so perhaps you should focus on your relationship with God and not on finding a "boyfriend" from the Internet, which is not so safe.

:)
 
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lovingmygod10

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thats not my main focus. i am here to talk about it. no boy hunt. i mean seriously do i look like some tramp to you. and i am not havin a good day. and who made you my mom. no one. so plz let me have freedom of speech here
 
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lovingmygod10

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and your not much older than me. so quit startin stuff on a christian website kay?
 
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lightbliss

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Really?

I in no way want to be your mom, I'm just telling you the rules of this site.

Nor did I imply that you are a "tramp".

From reading you other posts, IMO, when someone isn't well (in any way) they should turn to God.

Also, based on your initial post, it seems as though you are "searching" for someone.

Peace
 
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lightbliss

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I'm not "starting" anything.
Please refer to my previous post.

Also age has nothing to do with advice or wisdom (but I'll be 18 on the 22nd).
 
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lovingmygod10

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ok then. so you have no room to talk. so im welcome to this ok. thanks buh bye now
 
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lightbliss

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I'm really not "judging" you.

It's just that you have to be careful with people on the Internet.

I am truly sorry if I hurt your feelings or was somehow rude.

For me, when someone is going through something, no matter what their situation is, they should look to God.

Again, sorry and good night.
 
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DrMarioLuigi

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Ok...think I'll step into this one.
There's no need to fight, this is CC not the UFC. Therefore, can we not converse together as friends, as brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus, our lord and savior? I'm not a mod...but I am one of God's children, and keeping the peace between my fellow brothers and sisters is what God has directed me to do I believe. So, if you feel you HAVE to fight over something, then please...make it something worth fighting over. Still though...it would be nice if we wouldn't fight at all :)
I'm not picking sides...both parties are at fault here.


~Its'a me, mario! hoo hoooo~!
 
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Hey guys, Bless your heart lovingmygod & welcome to cc... I think that it was lightbliss's intention to explain the general rules on here. You most certainly are welcome here & you'll come to know lightbliss as someone who truly loves the Lord. God bless your fellowship here. & God bless my girl lightbliss!
 

Sharp

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[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FG5ZhFN1DXk[/video]
 

jangel

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used to hear that song in our church...let me add one also




[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2iaffEUBj0[/video]
 
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periksandeep

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seriously lil one , u dont need to look for a relationship desperately, when god think its the right time he will provide the best for u , just keep praying , and u shud check on the words u typing here @ lovingmygod10 , just a polite advice to u, dont get me wrong :)
 
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sportygirl

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I do agree this is not a dating site, but its for help and discussion on dating relationships, but that doesnt really matter at this point. I read one of your other posts about how you hate waiting, thats just not your thing. Well maybe that needs to be your thing, sometimes God calls on us to wait for his timing. I learned this the hard way! I wanted a relationship in my time not His, and I ended up dating the first Christian guy that seemed like he had his priorities straight and was interested in me, although before knowing he liked me I was interested in a differnet guy (he knew this). But I didnt care, I wasnt into waiting either, and in my mind it was never going to work out with the other guy, and maybe it wouldnt have who knows. My not waiting ended up being nine months of me being pulled away from God, and ten finally a horrible break-up which thankfully brought me closer to God.

So patience deary you are only 17, you may feel like an adult but even adults have to be patient. Even more so, sometimes. Some guy God wants in your life will come along if your just willing to wait, if not you may end up attracting exactly the type of guys you want to avoid.

And I do agree with lightbliss, about the being careful about guys you meet online, even on here. They may be no better then the ones you've run into in person, and meeting people online can be dangerous.
 

Crypto

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I think you should be more tactful. And those are about rooms not forums.

Sorry, welcome to CC.

You are allowed to post but like the Teens Forum is for "just" teens, this forum is for those 18+, to discuss being single adults and whatnot.

10. Please do not hang out where you do not belong.

Please do not use the Teens chat room unless you are between 13 and 19 years old. And please do not use the Singles chat room unless you are single and 18 or older. (The other chat rooms are for general fellowship and are open to all.)

Rules - Christian Chat Rooms & Forums

I've read your other posts about being single and heartbroken, so perhaps you should focus on your relationship with God and not on finding a "boyfriend" from the Internet, which is not so safe.

:)