I notice I received a "6" for a score,but really I don't deserve one,because I didn't actually plan a date,as per outlined in said rules. I'm too old to be dating anyways...that's a young man's game. I'd much rather skip all the nonsense & not even call it dates...just do things & spend time with someone who's company I enjoy. I've done things similar to what Chrissy has described with close women friends before,that weren't believers without the pressure of calling it a date. Then again,I'm a bit odd. lol