Honestly, Bekah...that's the problem. Your guy isn't saved =\ things aren't gonna work out great when the both of you have different beliefs...
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simplyme_bekah
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ahhh but you see that is where you are wrong. I could not give up on him as God cannot give up on me. We have managed to make it 6 years this way. I have faith that God has a plan for my man. I know that God will do his work and that I will be a part of it.
Hate to say this, too, but the Bible also says:
2 Corinthians 6:14
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
14 Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?
I mean you can pray for his salvation, but I honestly think you should really pray and really listen to God's voice on whether your guy is open to the option of walking with God and following the Bible. And if he says no now, chances are, he's gonna say no again and again and his heart will become hardened more and more...I'm sorry, but I think you should pray about whether being with him is right or not.
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simplyme_bekah
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I love him. It is that simple. If the path I walk is hardship as I wait for him to turn to God then I will hold his hand. You don't give up on someone when your heart tells you they are worth the time you give to them that is precious but yours for the moment. God has a plan. I pray to hard to not believe that with every fiber of my soul.
"Love" doesn't always mean "stay." But...okay. You do what you think is best.
Agreed times ten. I suggest you sincerely seek God's will in this relationship, and ask Him to not let your heart get in the way of what He wants for you.
God won't ask you to "give up" on Tom. But God might not want you to continue being in a romantic relationship with him.
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forevergrieving1986
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I know some of what you are going through. Things will slowly get better in time. i didn't get along with my mom for awhile, and now we are best friends. As for the friend things, I just moved into another state and don't have much of a social life. It is hard when you are in pain and feel alone. I hope that one day our troubles will turn into something good. I will pray for you to find the peace you are seeking.
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simplyme_bekah
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Yes ladies I do pray on his will on this relationship often so I can see your point. But then I just do not know how to give up on someone that I love. If you truly love someone even when things are really difficult doesn't that mean that it is a love that should be cherished and fought for? Everything has a purpose. Every life, every relationship, every single event that takes place in our lives happens with a purpose. I am not sure that it is Gods purpose for me to give up when a love like this exist because Love comes from him. So I am listening to him and praying to him that HIS will be done and NOT my own. (((blessed be sisters)))
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simplyme_bekah
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Thank you for your prayers. Life sometimes gets really freaking hard. But its ok because that is just a part of life. These times are when you find God giving you the opportunity to trust him. It is something used to teach you and help you grow as a person as his child. He gives you that peace of mind and the strength to overcome anything and everything. I have been at peace and happy and just full of joy for the last several days. I have chose to be happy because it is my choice. I allow what influence I have come to find that I totally love making people happy by being nice and kind to them. We all endure hardships. I thank you for praying for me through mine. Have a blessed day and may my God bless you for your prayers.
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simplyme_bekah
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And that is what happens when you try to talk on the phone and write at the same time hahaha ( I allow what influence I have come to find that I totally love making people happy by being nice and kind to them.) What I meant is that I allow something to influence me or not. Its my choice how I react to what happens. I can do it with a crappy or a positive attitude. I choose happy *grinz*
I know this must be a tough situation. I'm glad you ask for God's will to be done, and not yours.
Neither God nor I will tell you to give up on Tom, OR stop loving him. But you might be supposed to love him from a different location.
Hope it all turns out well, I really do. And I ask that He makes His plan, whatever it is, more clear to you. ~ PopClick
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simplyme_bekah
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Thank you popclick. I really appreciate the prayers from everyone. I have been slipping down that slippery slope and falling quiet often on my butt as far as sin goes lately. I could use some prayers for this.
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simplyme_bekah
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Oh and by the way my guy said that he got saved when he was a little boy. I just think he has a lot of anger at God and unresolved issues. He had a pretty rough childhood and I think blames a lot of it on God. Not 100% sure but anger comes through his voice when he and I discuss God. I still pray because I'M not sure if he is saved or not. But God knows. So please pray for Thomas to get saved/get his life right with God. Thank you so very much!!
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