A question for the ladies: What makes a man attractive?

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Kind, genuinely interested in you. Pursues you. Is kind and funny. Has a drivers license and likes coffee. Has a drivers license. LOL drives and has a smile. Likes coffee too. Maybe cartoons and cleans. Doesn’t yell at people. Takes time to get to know you. Drives a car.
Howdy and welcome to the forum.

I'm getting a strong impression that what you consider most important is... Chocolate. Right?

(Staying in character as a stereotypically oblivious guy here.)
 
whiskers?
tail?

Come on...we must know. It could help that guy who always posts about...stuff.
 
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Cowboy clothes... No. Just no. That SO ain't me.

If I ever decide to go looking for a girl, I'll keep in mind that I need to look like I'm trying to impress. The only time I try to impress anybody is when a new guy at my job is doing something the wrong way and I mention how long I've been there as a seniority reference. Otherwise, not worth it to try to impress anyone.

So it's not so much that I DO try to impress someone, as it is that I have an APPEARANCE of trying to impress? So if I wore a nice hat or something, that would give the appearance? I don't have to try as long as it LOOKS like I'm trying?
Don't mind me I'm prone to stir the pot on occaision. I was reading my reply out loud and my son said 'don't tell someone to wear a cowboy shirt'...'out of the mouths of babes' lol. So nvrmnd the image of pushing the chruch doors open and saying 'I'm the new sheriff in town' all decked out and wearing a cross😂.
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Any takers for white chocolate?
I am not a fan of white chocolate. Too sweet and milky. I have no idea why it is white. Aren't cocoa beans...dark brown?

I was given a pack of stawberries and cream lindt for my brithday and it's in the cupboard. I am wondering what I should do with it before it expires in July. I suspected the person who gave it to me got it from someone else and she didn't like them either and decided to give them to me.

It's weird I could eat a whole toblerone but white chocolate I just will not touch.

I can only handle the guylians that have a little white swirled in.

Easter eggs are not white, you would think they would be, seeing some real easter eggs have a white shell. And the brown shelled eggs are not really brown, but more of a pinky flesh colour.

anyway, carry on
Otherwise, I do like lindt, but will only eat the dark or milk chocolate ones.
 
Depends on the person.

I did a lot for grandma, and I never considered it work, because I loved her.

That's the difference between marrying for love and marrying for fear of being alone. If you marry because you are afraid of being alone, it is a job to keep your spouse.

And that is exactly why I am not going out looking for somebody. I have no fear at all of being alone. I will wait until I find a lady I love.
I do apologise , I think I wasn't very clear in my previous post to u . I was talking about romantic relationships not familial ones and , when I said they can b low paid I wasn't talking about money . My fault for assuming people always know what I'm talking about . I shall try to b clearer in future .
 
Eh... Women SAY that, but I'm still single. Many women have said that is what they are looking for, and many people have told me multiple times that I am all these things, but I am definitely still single.


I don't think people are being honest with you. You can be antagonistic and that doesn't sit well with women.


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Kind, genuinely interested in you. Pursues you. Is kind and funny. Has a drivers license and likes coffee. Has a drivers license. LOL drives and has a smile. Likes coffee too. Maybe cartoons and cleans. Doesn’t yell at people. Takes time to get to know you. Drives a car.
He drives and he likes coffee...

I see someone who drinks coffee to keep from yelling at people while he's driving.

That's a good list! 😀
 
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I do apologise , I think I wasn't very clear in my previous post to u . I was talking about romantic relationships not familial ones and , when I said they can b low paid I wasn't talking about money . My fault for assuming people always know what I'm talking about . I shall try to b clearer in future .
I was using Grandma as an illustration, a case in point. I knew exactly what you were saying.

What I was saying was, if I meet a lady that I truly love, it will no longer be a job.
 
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*Shrug* You were wondering why you're still single. Now you know why.


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Oh I've always known why. Apathy. Mine.

I'm just saying... Girls are always saying they value those three things, and I have those three things in spades, or so people keep telling me. I should be having to beat the girls off with a stick... IF they are telling the truth.
 
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A sharp tongue. I already mentioned tongue, for those cutting remarks.

No, will just wait till zeroturbulence posts what it is, because I'm not watching a clickbait you-tube video lest I end up with porn all over my computer. He said it wasn't something disgusting, but you-tube doesn't seem to discriminate what ads they put there or in their recommendations.

I have run out of body parts. I mean muscles are a good thing for a man to have, they don't need to be as big as Arnold Schwarznegger.

I mean in terms of flesh. Spiritual body doesn't come in parts, you get the whole (holy) package.

Lynx just wants to stay single, so leave him alone.
 
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A sharp tongue. I already mentioned tongue, for those cutting remarks.

No, will just wait till zeroturbulence posts what it is, because I'm not watching a clickbait you-tube video lest I end up with porn all over my computer. He said it wasn't something disgusting, but you-tube doesn't seem to discriminate what ads they put there or in their recommendations.

I have run out of body parts. I mean muscles are a good thing for a man to have, they don't need to be as big as Arnold Schwarznegger.

I mean in terms of flesh. Spiritual body doesn't come in parts, you get the whole (holy) package.

Lynx just wants to stay single, so leave him alone.


He did wonder. It doesn't help to keep him in the dark.

Proverbs 27:6: "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful."


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I had/have a type: tall, glasses, beard lol.

Personality wise: intelligent, funny, kind. Musician. But most importantly, a man who loves the Lord and shows it in every part of life.

The Lord has

Howdy and welcome to the forum.

I'm getting a strong impression that what you consider most important is... Chocolate. Right?

(Staying in character as a stereotypically oblivious guy here.)
I’d live to have some chocolate right now but sadly I’m a carnivore lol
 
He did wonder. It doesn't help to keep him in the dark.

Proverbs 27:6: "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful."


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I thought he already knews I just thought it was obvs. Sometimes he does rhetorical things or analogies. Anyway.

Most men proclaim their own goodness, but a faithful man who can find? Proverbs 20:6 is my go to.

I don't do flattery either, so if a man tries to charm me I wonder why. I'd rather have a friend than a lover. I think a loving friend would be good, but always seems to be one or the other with some. Then they lust after someone else when they are done with you. I can't imagine how that works in a marriage when you are basically stuck with that person for the rest of your life, or until you decide to divorce.

Settling down only works if you have a guaranteed home, a well paid steady job, and a good network of friends. Children are not a fan of instability although it makes it adventurous for some who never knew anything different.

Some men may be fun to go out with, but hell to live with.
 
Absolutely 💯 works in my opinion! Lol
At least he only drinks coffee no alcohol or smokes cigarettes.

I think the smoker is more chill, otherwise they get grumpy if they don't smoke. But your lungs won't appreciate it.
Alcohol...you are dicing with death if you go with a drinker.
 
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At least he only drinks coffee no alcohol or smokes cigarettes.

I think the smoker is more chill, otherwise they get grumpy if they don't smoke. But your lungs won't appreciate it.
Alcohol...you are dicing with death if you go with a drinker.
That is true.
 
Well don't keep us in suspense. I haven't mentioned any private parts because well, we don't really look there, unless you're flashing or mooning us. Please don't do that.
I haven't read all the comments yet so I don't know if anyone got it, but here is the video. They tracked women's eye movement with some kind of equipment.
This therapist lady does not like questionnaires, only scientific data.

 
oh ok

man people should stop watching you-tube vids with suggestive titles like that. They just want you to click on the ads.

The only vids I really have time for to watch are karaoke songs, because I need the lyrics in time with the music.
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