I dunno. I've done a lot of studying over the years about how kids grow up, (wanted to be a teacher, so took the college courses, and then was writing a novel for grammar school kids, so had to see if they had changed in the last 40 years. lol) The information about how puberty happens has remained the same. Girls really are two years older in maturity than boys. I just don't know if that means boys are immature for their age or girls above mature for their age.
Good news though. You are the normal mature for your age. (Somehow this sounds like you could mistake this for an insult. I can't figure out how to fix that, so just going to say, "you're doing good. I worry about teens who are too mature for their age, or too immature. I'm not worried about you, because you seem about where you should be in your maturity.")
I was thinking of changing my pic to my two ferocious boys......I did an accidental social experiment. (Accidental, as in I wasn't planning on doing this. It just happened.)
See my avatar? It's a stuffed animal. I change it every month, yet there are always one or more of my stuffed animals in the picture. I average about three of those PMs a month.
One month I posted a picture of me (when I was in my 40s) and some of my stuffed animals. Four of those PMs that month.
It seems to me women with avatars of them being women, (and you can even be dressed up for a costume party, and looking frightful lol), will raise the levels of those kinds of PMs.
Four in one month or three a year? Meh. In my case I don't really care. I tend to find the typical spammers amusing.
On the other hand, I would love it if for one month most of the people on this site would have a picture of the opposite gender as their avatar. I'd be curious if there was an uptick or downtick in spamming PMs.
Wow, you are the best person right now!!Yeah, you guys are the land of Lord of the Rings. AU is the land of Quigley Down Under and Crocodile Dundee. (And to any Aussies. If'n you want more modern movies to describe your land, then get to it. I'm all about the scenery in movies, so would love to see more Oz movies.)
I actually am very very aware of social media danger and i don't plan on having a relationship until i'm 18 or done with university..... for now it's just crushes and more major crushes
How strange I had multiple pms from both genders and fascinating people when I had my avatar as my actual face(multiple avatars) and I now have an anime avatar and yet I still get pms but not as many hmmm,should I switch my avatar back?(hahaha hahaha hahaha)I put my pic as my avatar once... and not a single PM.![]()
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You know it’s all about the Marmite.....I had to replace my photo avatar as it was getting NO results
I was hoping the vegemite might do better.
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Do what your heart tells you to do....How strange I had multiple pms from both genders and fascinating people when I had my avatar as my actual face(multiple avatars) and I now have an anime avatar and yet I still get pms but not as many hmmm,should I switch my avatar back?(hahaha hahaha hahaha)
I don't really care if anyone answers, so was just wondering if anyone else has had any questionable private messages, requesting emails so a picture can be sent.
And that is?