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Donkeyfish07

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#61
I agree. There are many shy guys out there who will be much more faithful and honest and loving than confident men who just want to use women. Shy should be a positive quality. For example this quality is attractive in women to me. It often equates to being modest too.
Let me flip the script around on that post to show how futile that thinking is.....You'll understand the ladies point of view a little better when you re-read it

"I agree. There are many ugly girls out there who will be much more faithful and honest and loving than beautiful women who just want to use men. Ugly should be a positive quality. For example, girls that have this quality seem to be easier to obtain. It often equates to being easy to deal with too."

Perhaps this will offend somebody, but hey....I'm just putting into perspective. You can argue what people should find appealing all day long.....no amount of reasoning can change what's appealing to a person, if your not attracted your not attracted.......

Also, for the record........no one ever said they didn't like shy guys......they just said they want a man who is at least willing to ask. Being shy doesn't = not taking action.....shy was never spoken of as a negative quality in and of itself.
 
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Jullianna

Guest
#62
After pondering your pic, I can certainly understand why some of the guys who are confrontational toward and/or hypercritical of women online might be a tad shy about approaching them in person. :)