Abusive relationship

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Please pray for me. My daughters dad and I don’t have a healthy relationship. Sometimes, he gets somewhat violent when I don’t want to sleep with him and his anger outbursts can be very scary. I’ve been dealing with a lot and he’s not very supportive. He yells and threatens me in front of our daughter and threatens to kill me if I leave him. I don’t know what to do
 

Leastamongmany

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Please pray for me. My daughters dad and I don’t have a healthy relationship. Sometimes, he gets somewhat violent when I don’t want to sleep with him and his anger outbursts can be very scary. I’ve been dealing with a lot and he’s not very supportive. He yells and threatens me in front of our daughter and threatens to kill me if I leave him. I don’t know what to do
praying for you,your daughter,and him! I rebuke you Satan for coming against this family with fear and anger! You can only hinder,and at that you must ask our God's permission! Lord Jesus send your Spirit of healing,forgiveness and love into this home! In Jesus name,Amen!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
 

Magenta

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Dear Gemmy, I am so sorry to hear of the abuse you suffer. Are you married? Your profile says no. No man has any right to demand sex of you, and if you are forced against your will, it is rape. It is also against the law to utter death threats against anyone everywhere in the United States. Threatening to kill is a form of assault, and is also harassment and intimidation. I would suggest you let someone in a position of authority know of your situation before it escalates any further. Be prepared to bring criminal charges against him if he does not cease and desist in the type of behavior you have described. The father of your child is out of control, and sadly, it will likely only get worse.
 

mar09

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Lord, we bring gemmy and her family at Your feet. You know how, why, every answer to all we ask, and we also ask for Your mercy. Touch the kids' father that he learn to humble himself before You, he sees gem as a precious person You love too, and treat her and the children with respect and love, just as they do, him. Thank You for hearing our prayer.
 

Brian217

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Lord, we bring gemmy and her family at Your feet. You know how, why, every answer to all we ask, and we also ask for Your mercy. Touch the kids' father that he learn to humble himself before You, he sees gem as a precious person You love too, and treat her and the children with respect and love, just as they do, him. Thank You for hearing our prayer.
 

EmilyFoster

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I’m very sorry to hear about your situation, Gemmy. Be assured I’m praying, asking God to surround you with His love, comfort and protection. May He bless you, your daughter and her dad in a powerful way and give you wisdom and you trust in Him. Also, it might be helpful to get in touch with a counselor. I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number 855-382-5433. Grace and peace to you, sister.
 

levi85

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Lord bless this prayer, let there be love and respect between Gemmy, and daughters dad. Lord let the abusive relation be healed and become healthy. Lord bless Gemmy and this prayer, in Jesus gracious name, Amen!
 
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Please pray for me. My daughters dad and I don’t have a healthy relationship. Sometimes, he gets somewhat violent when I don’t want to sleep with him and his anger outbursts can be very scary. I’ve been dealing with a lot and he’s not very supportive. He yells and threatens me in front of our daughter and threatens to kill me if I leave him. I don’t know what to do
Lord I pray for Gemmy and her husband, Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from her, along with all malice. Amen!
 

JimC

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Please pray for me. My daughters dad and I don’t have a healthy relationship. Sometimes, he gets somewhat violent when I don’t want to sleep with him and his anger outbursts can be very scary. I’ve been dealing with a lot and he’s not very supportive. He yells and threatens me in front of our daughter and threatens to kill me if I leave him. I don’t know what to do
Pray for Almighty God to move on him with conviction and for him to change. If he doesn't want to change, pray for Almighty God to move him. All in Jesus name, nothing doubting, nothing wavering. AMEN