Adultery and impending divorce

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I am so sorry to read this. So many marriages and families are being attacked by the enemy and its heart breaking. Its not right at all. Our faithful God loves you with an everlasting love and you can trust that He will never leave you nor forsake you. Commit your husband to God. My prayer is that God will convict him of his wrong doing and you will experience the peace and comfort of the Holy Spirit at this time. Nothing is impossible with God and even if your husband has filed for divorce, God can still intervene.
 
My family is shattered due to my husband's unfaithfulness and now he has filed for divorce, which I assume is being pushed by this other woman. He refuses to end it with her.

This is just not right even though I know that I am pardoned by God, I want my family to be whole and to be living righteously, serving and loving the Lord in all we do.

God can do everything. HE can change hearts and change situations. I pray to God to grant you the desire of your heart and I pray that God will touch the heart of your husband and your family will become whole again and all the connections between the other woman and your husband will be destroyed in the name!JESUS! AMEN!

God bless you and your family sis.
 
Thank you everyone for your sweet words of support! It means so much to know that there are brothers and sisters who understand and are willing to spend their precious time praying for me and others as well. God's blessings to all!
 
My family is shattered due to my husband's unfaithfulness and now he has filed for divorce, which I assume is being pushed by this other woman. He refuses to end it with her.

This is just not right even though I know that I am pardoned by God, I want my family to be whole and to be living righteously, serving and loving the Lord in all we do.

Jesus we lift our precious sister up to you.
We pray protection over her and the family.
Answer her prayer for the family.
We pray for protection from bitterness and anger.
We pray for healing from any hurt that has already taken route.
We pray for wholeness.
We pray for a peace that only you can give, that is rooted in you.
One that knows that you are in control.

We life HisPeace up you.
 
Update: Nothing has changed. He treats me like the enemy....

The Lord in His mercy has told me that he has this under control. I am trusting through the pain and the suffering my children will go through because of their father's selfishness. And here is the major issue: He claims to be a christian who goes to church regularly!! He has left all the hard work of raising the children to me and when I have to constantly work, they have no one. I am seeking a financial miracle for myself and my children, my Dear Lord. Amen.
 
I kind have been going through the samething.... my marriage hasn't been the best and neither has my husband and neither have i...but one thing me and you have in common is we both want to fight to save our marriage, some people will be so quick to tell you to just forget about your husband, he's not going to change, he commitem adultery, and to let go.. but that's not what God says.. he says what God joins together let no man separate.. he hates divorce.. but permits it because of our hardened hearts.. so sister if your fighting for your marriage keep on fighting your good fight.. I have been struggling in my marriage too, I have my bad days but I praise God through them, I know gods working on my marriage , my husband committed adultery also, and I have chose to stick by his side, through all the heartache n pain, because I believe through gods loving grace I am partnered with him for a reason god chose him for me out of everyman in this world, to learn with to grow with, to go through trials with, and we all know God turns a mess into a message a test into a testimony.. so we can not only help ourselves but for others who will go through the samething as us..we will never be married to a perfect person nor will we ourselves ever be a perfect partner but we will grow n learn through the good n bad times.. so get into your prayer closet n start praying intercession for your hubby n family... when I am down n thinking about the hurt my husband caused with adultery I think of hosea and Gomer n how even through her transgressions hosea had a faithful love for her n stood by her side.. sister you are not alone, I know your pain, n god is here for you, trust in him with all your heart... father god I ask that you place your loving hand upon this woman and give her comfort during her difficult time, I ask that you put a strong conviction on her husband's heart , also that you break down the strongholds on his heart n in his mind lord to open his eyes spiritually lord in Jesus name I pray amen