I kind have been going through the samething.... my marriage hasn't been the best and neither has my husband and neither have i...but one thing me and you have in common is we both want to fight to save our marriage, some people will be so quick to tell you to just forget about your husband, he's not going to change, he commitem adultery, and to let go.. but that's not what God says.. he says what God joins together let no man separate.. he hates divorce.. but permits it because of our hardened hearts.. so sister if your fighting for your marriage keep on fighting your good fight.. I have been struggling in my marriage too, I have my bad days but I praise God through them, I know gods working on my marriage , my husband committed adultery also, and I have chose to stick by his side, through all the heartache n pain, because I believe through gods loving grace I am partnered with him for a reason god chose him for me out of everyman in this world, to learn with to grow with, to go through trials with, and we all know God turns a mess into a message a test into a testimony.. so we can not only help ourselves but for others who will go through the samething as us..we will never be married to a perfect person nor will we ourselves ever be a perfect partner but we will grow n learn through the good n bad times.. so get into your prayer closet n start praying intercession for your hubby n family... when I am down n thinking about the hurt my husband caused with adultery I think of hosea and Gomer n how even through her transgressions hosea had a faithful love for her n stood by her side.. sister you are not alone, I know your pain, n god is here for you, trust in him with all your heart... father god I ask that you place your loving hand upon this woman and give her comfort during her difficult time, I ask that you put a strong conviction on her husband's heart , also that you break down the strongholds on his heart n in his mind lord to open his eyes spiritually lord in Jesus name I pray amen