Well it depends on who it is. And well, to be frank, if you are spending time with Jesus and you have the fruit of the Spirit no one will be bringing anything out because you allow Jesus to satisfy your heart. Galatians 5:22 I'm prying that you receive what I say in kindness. I've been where you are. Not even too long ago. I'm learning that I must take everything to God in prayer, and Hewill give me the peace and ability to love others rightly.