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homeless_youngin

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lately I've been sort of addicted to playing with myself and it feels like I can't control it anymore like I used to be able to. what can I do to control myself so I don't have impure thoughts
 
what i do is pray for God to harden my heart towards lust and soften it towards His will

if i have that initial lustful thought i try to pray even if only in my head asap

think about other things

things God wont disapprove of

and also try to imagine Him and angels actually observing you.... because every single thought and action is being recorded

maybe this all sounds like generic advice...
but i guess to constantly pray

and change those lustful thoughts as fast as you can into something else

if you have head phones

maybe keep them on you

so you can turn on audio scripture or sermons or street preaching to convict you in these moments of temptation...


even if you fail at first (entertain the thoughts longer than the initial one that pops into your head)

BEFORE you take action towards feeding into your lusts

put yourself in a situation that makes it impossible

leave your home, go somewhere public

or if you view things too

shut off your phone

or computer or tv
 
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