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please give me some advice.
is there any one with 2 kids, one is white and another is black?
how do you tell your 9 year old why he is not looking like your skin?

he tells me that since he is white, he belongs to his father, and the one who looks like my skin he belongs to me.
it pained me, but i tried to tell him that they both belongs to me, and he said no

what pains me more is that his father never bother about him since he was in my womb, yet me who suffers with him he thinks that he does nt belong to me.
what can i say to him.
i know he loves alot, that one i know.

so i think with that problem , i wil never be with any man again in life, coz am afraid that one of my kids will always feel like he does not belong.
please any advise. am just 31 yrs old.

thank u all.
 
I do not know if there is any one answer. Except what you are doing, just love your children and trust in Jesus.
Jesus never fails to give you what you need.
You and your children are in my prayers.
God bless, pickles
 
I do not know if there is any one answer. Except what you are doing, just love your children and trust in Jesus.
Jesus never fails to give you what you need.
You and your children are in my prayers.
God bless, pickles
thank u so much.dear friend.
thx som for the prayer too.

u r in my prayers too.

goodday
 
I live in NZ and my Dad is Maori (Native People of NZ) but my mum is Pakeha (white). My dad wasnt too happy to find out that I was born either. It is very difficult to have two very different cultures within you.

The challenge can be the role model people in his life. I never had a father figure...And I wonder whether he might perhaps be going through the same motions.