Glad to hear that you seem to have immunity, but back to the general discussion, part of what I will be saying is what I will be working on in my second book. Why I am so foolish as to even think about a second book shows how little I learn.
But anyway, when we read some passages, we instinctively add words and that dictates how we understand the passages. In Genesis 2:17 when we read that God told Adam not to eat of the Tree of the knowledge of Good and Evil, we hear God issuing a commandment. I had a professor one time who advised our class not to speed in a certain small village on the other side of the city and if we did, we would surely get a speeding ticket. The professor had no power to issue speeding tickets, but the village was a known speed trap, so he was giving us a warning. Was God telling Adam that if he ate of the tree in defiance of what He had said that He would exact vengeance or was He warning Adam against a problem that He could not prevent without ruining the purpose of creation. Was it "I will not tolerate defiance" or was it "if you do I cannot stop the consequences", and how does that change the nature of Sin.
A related problem comes with the 10 Commandments. The Hebrew allows for these to be declarative statements, statements of truth, not imperative, orders. Declarative could imply "when you have it right this is how you will behave" as opposed to the way they often get understood of "to get it right this is how you must behave".
God's righteousness means that God does the right things, quite plausibly trying to teach us how to live righteously. God's justice implies punishment for not doing the right thing. Righteousness, God will not stop the necessary consequences but will be there to help whenever we turn to Him. Justice, God will inflict the consequences for wrongful behavior. In both cases, the consequences arrive, but in one we blame God for them rather than ourselves. A drinking alcoholic or drug using drug addict finds lots of reasons why they are not to blame for their behavior, a recovering person blames themselves.
Either way, God provides a scapegoat to take the blame for our misbehavior, but in one case it is to compensate His demands, in the other it is because we will not accept our blame. The second is a very loving approach, not bailing us out so that we do not learn why to avoid the wrong behavior but rather requires us to learn better, the first allows us to pass the blame off onto another and avoid learning.