Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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You know exactly what I was referring too...the fact that they were so repulsive to you and they haven't even done anything to you personally is what bothered me.Just because they are not suitable for you doesn't give you a sense of entitlement to hold them in such low regard..
What has been my fault here ? I havent approached the girls and punched them in the face. I just have rejected them as potential chances for a date.
Remember the account of the woman they were gonna stone because they caught her in the act of sexual sin and yes they were right in terms of acknowledging the wrongness of her actions yet at the same time so very wrong in their attitude towards this women...I am sue you know what jesus did in that situation.
Yet Jesus told her to sin no more.
What would you do if they said they recently accepted jesus christ as their lord and saviour...yet stil had multiple ear piercings in and one still had dye hair..?
I would probably think they are lying in order to obtain something from me. Or that they are fakes. Because of this simple reason. A Christian girl is modest. And a modest girl does not desecrate her body.
 

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What has been my fault here ? I havent approached the girls and punched them in the face. I just have rejected them as potential chances for a date.

Yet Jesus told her to sin no more.

I would probably think they are lying in order to obtain something from me. Or that they are fakes. Because of this simple reason. A Christian girl is modest. And a modest girl does not desecrate her body.
MASSIVE SIGH..😒
 

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What has been my fault here ? I havent approached the girls and punched them in the face. I just have rejected them as potential chances for a date.

Yet Jesus told her to sin no more.

I would probably think they are lying in order to obtain something from me. Or that they are fakes. Because of this simple reason. A Christian girl is modest. And a modest girl does not desecrate her body.
The issue isn't about you rejecting them as potential dates.. the issue is was your attitude towards them just because of the way you perceived them..and you are intelligent enough to know that's exactly what I was referring too...

Funny how you pick up upon the fact that jesus told her to sin no more which is true for sure...yet the context in which he says it is one of the main things here.Iam making reference to the fact that while those men were judging her,condemning her to death...jesus exposed the wrongness of their attitude towards her and made them aware that they were also guilty of sin too.His attitude towards her was of compassion ,grace and mercy even though she was guilty of sin....not of disgust.
Did you know that some Christian females struggle with sexual addictions,fornication though saved??.its not just guys who do.

Oh boy...You have so much to learn.🤣🤣🤣🤣
A womans dress doesn't always reflect her salvation.Especially if someone has recently become a Christian.Some take a little time to grow in grace and especially those who ste really into certain kinds of fashion.Having dye hair and wearing multiple earings most certainly doesn't reflect a recently save young woman sense of modesty.
Hoe on earth would you cope if you came across a prostitute who recently got saved and hardly has any thing church like to wear and is still addicted to meths or crack ect..or what about a ladyboy who has been recently saved yet has of yet to come to terms with the reality of their real sexual orientation?
What you gonna do?..Run to the hills?
Dress never is guarantee indication of someones transformation of becoming modest esp for those who have recently become saved.
 

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Why you do this ?
Because you are so quick to reject anyone or any idea that doesn't match your preconceived notion of what should be, then you whine about why your demands aren't being met and keep asking if anyone will meet them. Nope we have no power to make this perfect dream girl that fits all your criteria materialize out of thin air. So you really are better off getting to work on that time machine. If it doesn't lead you to a suitable woman; it might at least lead you to gratitude for some of the comforts of modern life (like a steady supply of effortless heating fuel in the winter or electric lights or the internet).
 

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and is still addicted to maths
I can't lie. I've been working on my math addiction. I developed an addiction to addition early on then added subtraction to the mix. When I couldn't get ahead my problems multiplied and even taking up the divide and conquer strategy didn't work completely. And then the calculus really fried my brain because infinity was overwhelming.

Also this:

 

Encouragement

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I can't lie. I've been working on my math addiction. I developed an addiction to addition early on then added subtraction to the mix. When I couldn't get ahead my problems multiplied and even taking up the divide and conquer strategy didn't work completely. And then the calculus really fried my brain because infinity was overwhelming.

Also this:

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...my bad...I ment meths addiction.. ..luckily I has just enough time to amend the spelling error..
Just use a calculator.it saves you brain a lot of hassle trying to work it all out👍🏻😊.
 

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Because you are so quick to reject anyone or any idea that doesn't match your preconceived notion of what should be, then you whine about why your demands aren't being met and keep asking if anyone will meet them.
Because if I had not these standards and accepted the "real girl" my future would be this:

 

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The issue isn't about you rejecting them as potential dates.. the issue is was your attitude towards them just because of the way you perceived them..and you are intelligent enough to know that's exactly what I was referring too...

Funny how you pick up upon the fact that jesus told her to sin no more which is true for sure...yet the context in which he says it is one of the main things here.Iam making reference to the fact that while those men were judging her,condemning her to death...jesus exposed the wrongness of their attitude towards her and made them aware that they were also guilty of sin too.His attitude towards her was of compassion ,grace and mercy even though she was guilty of sin....not of disgust.
Did you know that some Christian females struggle with sexual addictions,fornication though saved??.its not just guys who do.

Oh boy...You have so much to learn.🤣🤣🤣🤣
A womans dress doesn't always reflect her salvation.Especially if someone has recently become a Christian.Some take a little time to grow in grace and especially those who ste really into certain kinds of fashion.Having dye hair and wearing multiple earings most certainly doesn't reflect a recently save young woman sense of modesty.
Hoe on earth would you cope if you came across a prostitute who recently got saved and hardly has any thing church like to wear and is still addicted to meths or crack ect..or what about a ladyboy who has been recently saved yet has of yet to come to terms with the reality of their real sexual orientation?
What you gonna do?..Run to the hills?
Dress never is guarantee indication of someones transformation of becoming modest esp for those who have recently become saved.
opps forgot to mention that many people have things done to their bodies/ have a particular style of dress ect pre salvation...then it take a while for certain transitions to take place in their lives...certain things unfortunately cant be altered or can be very tricky..
 

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opps forgot to mention that many people have things done to their bodies/ have a particular style of dress ect pre salvation...then it take a while for certain transitions to take place in their lives...certain things unfortunately cant be altered or can be very tricky..
But lets return to the question. How can I find a marriage material girl with a clean body ? Since I dont want to date an unbeliever.
 

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But lets return to the question. How can I find a marriage material girl with a clean body ? Since I dont want to date an unbeliever.
Man you're unbelievable...seriously..🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️
 

Kauko

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I will leave you to figure that one out
Answering your question yes, I would run to the hills.

But please tell me how can I find the girl I seek. Or tell me what problem you find in me. But dont leave me like this.
 

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Answering your question yes, I would run to the hills.

But please tell me how can I find the girl I seek. Or tell me what problem you find in me. But dont leave me like this.
Seriously dude?
All those questions have already be answered/highlighted by numerous individuals here multiple times..ita soon 500 different post here already.
I suggest you take time our and re read this entire Thread..
No way am I gonna get sucked into repeating the same things all over again that I have previously said plus countless others...
 

Kauko

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Seriously dude?
All those questions have already be answered/highlighted by numerous individuals here multiple times..ita soon 500 different post here already.
I suggest you take time our and re read this entire Thread..
No way am I gonna get sucked into repeating the same things all over again that I have previously said plus countless others...
Or just highlight the important points. Please. Im really desperate.
 

Kauko

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I dont want to get drunk again please help !!!
 

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Or just highlight the important points. Please. Im really desperate.
Then what will happen is that you will say the exact same thing to somebody else here 'which I have seen you do'...which they kindly do....
then another time you ask someone else here the same question...

You kinda get my drift...
The bible says
'always learning and never able to come to the truth'
Personally having been in this thread on /off for al the weeks I think there is actually more to how you process truth that you are letting on.You are just unable to grasp anything you are being told..it's like sand falling through your fingers (the advice/encouragement you're told).then you feel like the sand wasn't even there yet you kinda knew it was.

I sense that you are trapped within your own self and cannot break free..There is freedom in christ and why not get someone from your church to pray for you and with you?