Lesson number one, you can't stop a sinner from being a sinner,unless he gives his life to Jesus.they will always be like that as long as they walk in darkness. you are not to look down on these people,because you was just like them at one time. be gentle and loving ,and let your light shine before them. you want them to become what you are, please, don't condemn. Jesus did not come to condemn the world ,but to save it.