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CarriePie

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#62
Not all women are the same. I see that attitude in posts/threads made on this site and it's aggravating. Not all men are the same and not all women are the same.

Classes on the subject by someone who has their head on straight, 'cause I see a lot of crummy advice being given on the net and in the world...and at times on this site.
 

CarriePie

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#63
I understand. I’m trying to respect you and avoid arguments. Just for the relationships well being.
We are in a stage of feeling things out. Let's not get too hasty about defining ourselves.

Hopefully, we can be respectful and in a smashing disposition as we feel things out and see what is best for us both.
 
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#64
Not all women are the same. I see that attitude in posts/threads made on this site and it's aggravating. Not all men are the same and not all women are the same.

Classes on the subject by someone who has their head on straight, 'cause I see a lot of crummy advice being given on the net and in the world...and at times on this site.
Trust me, I fell victim to that advice while we were talking more. YouTube..
 
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Also, there is still that physical attraction problem.

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I'm just trying to not get hurt again.
I was very hopeful and excited to start talking again but looking back at the mess I made I long the way, is something I’m currently reflecting on.
 

CarriePie

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#69
I was very hopeful and excited to start talking again but looking back at the mess I made I long the way, is something I’m currently reflecting on.
I was hopeful and excited too...I just was hoping we could be more cautious this time. That doesn't mean we can't talk or spend time together. I just want to be careful because you are someone who dealt me some pain. I'd be a fool to just jump back in without going slowing and cautiously. That doesn't mean I lack hope. I'm just trying to be wise. Some men think us women aren't capable of being wise, but they'd be fools themselves.
 
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Also, there is still that physical attraction problem.

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I'm just trying to not get hurt again.
I’m not sure how much self inflicting pain I’m going to process to match how bad I hurt you
I was hopeful and excited too...I just was hoping we could be more cautious this time. That doesn't mean we can't talk or spend time together. I just want to be careful because you are someone who dealt me some pain. I'd be a fool to just jump back in without going slowing and cautiously. That doesn't mean I lack hope. I'm just trying to be wise. Some men think us women aren't capable of being wise, but they'd be fools themselves.
That makes sense. I am hopeful and I have been praying for you. Which is probably why we are talking again.

All you have to do is ask the lord for wisdom. Doesn’t matter if you are male or female.
 

CarriePie

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#71
I’m not sure how much self inflicting pain I’m going to process to match how bad I hurt you


That makes sense. I am hopeful and I have been praying for you. Which is probably why we are talking again.

All you have to do is ask the lord for wisdom. Doesn’t matter if you are male or female.

I'm not trying to cause a bad night here.
I am very open to talking and spending time together and seeing what happens...and most importantly, seeing what the Lord wills.
I respectfully ask that we take our time for a while and be careful.
That doesn't mean we can't have fun conversations or, on the other hand, deep conversations about life and our struggles.
I just don't want to give you the wrong idea, I want to be careful before we label ourselves. I'm just respectfully saying that.
 
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#72
I'm not trying to cause a bad night here.
I am very open to talking and spending time together and seeing what happens...and most importantly, seeing what the Lord wills.
I respectfully ask that we take our time for a while and be careful.
That doesn't mean we can't have fun conversations or, on the other hand, deep conversations about life and our struggles.
I just don't want to give you the wrong idea, I want to be careful before we label ourselves. I'm just respectfully saying that.
Of course. I respect your boundaries.
 
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#73
I'm not trying to cause a bad night here.
I am very open to talking and spending time together and seeing what happens...and most importantly, seeing what the Lord wills.
I respectfully ask that we take our time for a while and be careful.
That doesn't mean we can't have fun conversations or, on the other hand, deep conversations about life and our struggles.
I just don't want to give you the wrong idea, I want to be careful before we label ourselves. I'm just respectfully saying that.
Ona lighter note. I ordered a new zevia flavor…mango with some other exotic flavor in it.
 
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#74
I'm not trying to cause a bad night here.
I am very open to talking and spending time together and seeing what happens...and most importantly, seeing what the Lord wills.
I respectfully ask that we take our time for a while and be careful.
That doesn't mean we can't have fun conversations or, on the other hand, deep conversations about life and our struggles.
I just don't want to give you the wrong idea, I want to be careful before we label ourselves. I'm just respectfully saying that.
Along with two big bags of beef jerky! That should be here this morning.
 
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#78
Smashing! I look forward to your review of it.

I seen a funny post on fb recently. But, I can't post here :censored:

May I email you the post?
Again, I’m currently internalizing your hurt…but at the same time I have a bubbly type personality myself. A man version.