The things listed in 1 Cor 12:8-10 are not gifts. They are manifestations of the gift of the Holy Spirit. Every single Christian has the ability to manifest that gift. God want's all Christians to speak in tongues, and they can do so, whether they think they can or not. Part of the problem is the belief that tongues is a gift, and not a manifestation. People think "well, God must not want me to speak in tongues because I don't have the "gift"". As I said earlier, most Christians simply don't know what it is. They keep waiting for God to possess them, or make them, or somehow cause them to speak in tongues. It won't happen. Because of the gift of the Holy Spirit, it's an ability they ALREADY HAVE. Once a Christian understands some of these things, they will understand how utterly EASY it is to speak in tongues.Tongues & interpretation, word of knowledge, word of wisdom, gift of healing, prophecy. Did I desire to use them? Yes, was I asking to be used by them at the time? No. The Holy Spirit gave me the ability at the time. The Holy Spirit is not going to make you do something you are not ready for. If you have know desire then you will not be used, if you have no desire and God does use you , you had to be willing at that time you were used. Do I claim the gifts to me mine? NO. They are the Gifts of the Holy Spirit, can I speak in tongues right now yes God has given me the ability and has entrusted me with it. Do I speak out for show ? NO. that is abusing the gift.